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- From: robj@netcom.com (Rob Jellinghaus)
- Subject: Re: Morally good necessary possible sometimes possible reproductiveness
- Message-ID: <1992Dec21.182718.17763@netcom.com>
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- References: <1992Dec20.011612.18713@husc3.harvard.edu> <1992Dec21.074709.26608@netcom.com> <1992Dec21.065346.18751@husc3.harvard.edu>
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- Date: Mon, 21 Dec 1992 18:27:18 GMT
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- In article <1992Dec21.065346.18751@husc3.harvard.edu> zeleny@husc10.harvard.edu (Michael Zeleny) writes:
- >In article <1992Dec21.074709.26608@netcom.com>
- >robj@netcom.com (Rob Jellinghaus) writes:
- >>This debate is not purely theoretical. If it were, I would not be
- >>reading it and participating in it from alt.politics.homosexuality.
- >>I happen to be interested in disseminating accurate information about
- >>homosexuality to as wide an audience as possible. This conversation
- >>with you is part of that.
- >
- >I have no interest in discussing your notion of theoretical purity,
- >beyond establishing whether you assent to my dismissal of popular
- >consensus, which is a necessary condition for making any meaningful
- >progress in this conversation.
-
- And I have repeatedly asserted that I do not believe you will alter
- your position regardless of what happens in our discussion. Let me
- be perfectly clear: I believe you are as fixed in your beliefs as
- Clayton Cramer is in his. I do not believe you will alter your
- position one iota, no matter what arguments anyone musters against
- you. I believe you will continue to post your position essentially
- unaltered for years to come, as long as you have access to the net.
-
- Thus, I am attempting to uncover your assumptions and arguments, in
- order to present my opposing position. I do this hoping that our
- audience will determine for itself which of us is correct, since I
- know you will not admit defeat.
-
- >MZ:
- >>>In any case, if you sincerely believe that
- >>>popular consensus regards homosexual sex as morally unimpeachable, you
- >>>are utterly out of touch with social reality.
- >
- >RJ:
- >>Oh, I'm under no such illusions.
- >
- >I am gratified to hear this. Shall we then dismiss popular consensus
- >as irrelevant, because irrational?
-
- Not at all. Popular consensus can change over time as a result of
- ongoing dialogue and access to accurate information. I am working
- to bring about just such a change.
-
- >To reiterate some of my assumptions, I take it that rational discourse,
- >in particular rational moral discourse, is both possible and desirable,
- >and so take human freedom of choice and rationality as its logical
- >prerequisites. I take it that absolute moral principles bind all
- >rational agents in accordance with their fundamental nature, and
- >regardless of their particular goals or circumstances. I take it that
- >rationality, sexuality, and mortality belong to the fundamental nature
- >of human beings, and accordingly are possessed of a moral dimension.
- >The rest is commentary.
-
- Your definitions of "absolute moral principles", "fundamental nature",
- and "rational agents" are at issue here. I assert you have chosen
- definitions for these terms that you can use to support your philo-
- sophical argument against homosexuality. I do not believe that your
- definitions are acceptable.
-
- >Regarding your distinction of victimhood, I maintain that it begs the
- >question. ....
-
- And I maintain otherwise. Your parable seems to have no bearing on my
- question. Where are the victims of homosexuality? Who is harmed by
- mutually consensual homosexual behavior? Is it your claim that
- fundamentalists are harmed because such behavior is against their
- religion? Your example of a Christian thief robbing a rich man to
- help the rich man get into heaven has no obvious relevance to the
- question I asked. Can you elucidate?
-
- >On my own view, borne out by my argument that homosexual sex is a grave
- >transgression against the moral nature of man, all participants therein
- >are victims of their akrastic inability to control their passions.
-
- This you have repeatedly stated, and I do not doubt you will continue
- to so state as long as you have net access. Once again, I assert that
- your definition of "moral nature of man" is specifically chosen to
- exclude homosexuality, and that other definitions are both possible,
- philosophically consistent, and more socially worthwhile.
-
- Unfortunately I am not a philosopher, and do not have the time to
- expend doing research to battle you on your own philosophical turf.
- I'm spending at least an hour a day on these conversations as is,
- and you by your own admission have spent years carefully crafting
- these anti-gay arguments. I will simply note that unless all the
- philosophers in the world agree with every point you have made,
- there are clearly lots of differing philosophical positions, and
- there are many grounds on which to choose between them.
-
- >MZ:
- >>>Of course, everything depends on your definition of
- >>>well-being. I note in passing that the one homosexual I knew best,
- >>>loathed his not altogether freely chosen lifestyle so much, that he
- >>>drank himself to death.
- >
- >RJ:
- >>You are utterly out of touch with social reality if you think this had
- >>nothing to do with the amount of bigotry directed against those with
- >>his "lifestyle".
- >
- >You are utterly full of shit, if you think you can tell me something
- >about the pitiful situation of my best friend, without bothering to
- >inquire about his circumstances.
-
- What were his circumstances? And no, I do not believe that I am
- necessarily full of shit. You describe him as hating his "lifestyle".
- Why did he hate it? As I and many others have pointed out repeatedly,
- there is nothing about being homosexual that _a priori_ implies an
- unhappy life. In my experience, the most common contributing causes
- of suicide among gays is despair at feeling inferior and stigmatized.
- Statistics on teen suicide support this claim. I do not know how much
- of your friend's sad condition was due to causes such as this, but I
- do not doubt these issues played a part. Am I wrong?
-
- Pardon my candor, but if this man really was your best friend, and if
- you shared your opinions with him as you have with us on the net, I
- can believe you might have convinced him that his basic sexual
- inclination was fundamentally at odds with basic human nature, and
- that behaving according to his basic instincts would be a morally
- wrong thing to do. This is after all what you have been saying here.
- If you did so convince him, then I _definitely_ believe this played a
- part in his despair.
-
- >>One cannot necessarily show premisses to be in error, since they are
- >>initial assumptions. If you would simply and plainly state your
- >>premises, we might be able to discuss things more easily.
- >
- >See above.
-
- I do not consider your above presentation to be sufficiently plain.
- You have simply referred to "fundamental nature", "absolute moral
- standards", and suchlike, as though mentioning a term defined it.
- I reiterate: your definitions for those terms have been chosen to
- support your argument, and other definitions are both possible and
- preferable.
-
- >>the debate will never make
- >>any progress towards changing your mind.
- >
- >Can you entertain the thought that this impasse may be due to the fact
- >that my opponents have a hard time accepting that I am right?
-
- I certainly can. I do not believe that is the case, any more than
- I believe Clayton Cramer is right simply because his opponents have
- failed to get him to admit he is wrong.
-
- >You will never convict me of bigotry, since should you ever
- >prove that my beliefs are irrational, I would immediately abandon them.
- >Surely a commitment to revise irrational beliefs is a necessary
- >condition of rationality, just as irrationality is a necessary condition
- >of bigotry.
-
- Such a commitment is necessary but not sufficient. I believe that you
- hold irrational beliefs which you claim are rational, and no amount of
- argument will persuade you to admit otherwise. In this case, your
- commitment to change should you be proven wrong is irrelevant, since
- you will never admit to being wrong.
-
- --
- Rob Jellinghaus | "Next time you see a lie being spread or a bad
- robj@netcom.com | decision being made out of sheer ignorance,
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