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- Newsgroups: soc.bi
- Path: sparky!uunet!nwnexus!elf
- From: elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
- Subject: Re: treating men as sex toys
- Message-ID: <1992Dec26.080405.28722@nwnexus.WA.COM>
- Originator: elf@halcyon.com
- Sender: sso@nwnexus.WA.COM (System Security Officer)
- Organization: Pendor, UnLtd.
- References: <MUFFY.92Dec24114049@remarque.berkeley.edu>
- Date: Sat, 26 Dec 1992 08:04:05 GMT
- Lines: 39
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- In article <MUFFY.92Dec24114049@remarque.berkeley.edu>
- muffy@remarque.berkeley.edu (Muffy Barkocy) writes:
-
- >To me, this concept (men as sex toys) is very similar to the "hot bi
- >babes" idea, where the women have a sexual relationship, but the real
- >focus is on their relationship with the man.
-
- I dunno; when I was dealing with the purely sexual side of my
- bisexuality, this appealed to me, the concept of men as sex toys. I
- perceived men as more fun, more agressive, more give-me-what-I-want,
- then women were. Of course, all of this was before I had actually
- slept with a man, but watching the man-made heterosexual porn, woman-
- made porn, and gay porn, the last was simply the best. At least these
- guys *knew* how to fuck, and were doing it for the sheer pleasure of
- fucking. *That* really appealed to me.
-
- The catch was, of course, that I was too much of a coward to
- actually go out cruising gay bars and the like, looking for that kind
- of interaction. It took a singularly powerful _emotional_ attraction
- to convince me that I should have sex with a man, and eventually I did.
-
- The sex was wonderful... and as much similar as different from
- heterosexual sex. I'm not saying I've given up on the notion of men as
- sex toys, but my interactions with people as I've gotten older (and,
- maybe, more mature) make it clear to me that as much as anyone can be a
- lover, anyone can be my sex toy, too...
-
- Elf !!!
- --
- elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
-
- Then, I was inspired. God, thy will is hard
- Now, I'm sad and tired. But you hold every card.
- Listen, surely I've exceeded I will drink your cup of poison.
- Expectations. Nail me to your cross and break me.
- Tried for three years, Bleed me, beat me.
- Seems like thirty. Kill me.
- Could you ask as much Take me now.
- From any other man? Before I change my mind.
-