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- Path: sparky!uunet!spool.mu.edu!nigel.msen.com!heifetz!rotag!kevin
- From: kevin@rotag.mi.org (Kevin Darcy)
- Subject: Re: Holtsinger on Harassment & Health
- Message-ID: <1992Nov21.220440.15816@rotag.mi.org>
- Organization: Who, me???
- References: <1992Nov17.154519.14631@pwcs.stpaul.gov> <1992Nov20.180206.10818@rotag.mi.org> <lefty-201192171445@lefty.apple.com>
- Date: Sat, 21 Nov 1992 22:04:40 GMT
- Lines: 138
-
- In article <lefty-201192171445@lefty.apple.com> lefty@apple.com (Lefty) writes:
- >In article <1992Nov20.180206.10818@rotag.mi.org>, kevin@rotag.mi.org (Kevin
- >Darcy) wrote:
- >>
- >> In article <1992Nov17.154519.14631@pwcs.stpaul.gov> chrisl@stpaul.gov (Chris A Lyman) writes:
- >> >
- >> >I find it quite repugnant, Peter, that you would attempt to deflect well-
- >> >deserved flames away from Darcy. He made several tasteless, tactless and
- >> >mean-spirited posts about a t.a participant's SO's experience as a victim
- >> >of child sex abuse.
- >>
- >> "...well-deserved flames..."
- >>
- >> Blatant assertion.
- >
- >Very nice. I picture you perched up on a stand, flapping your wings and
- >squawking "Blatant assertion! Blatant assertion!" _Good_ parrot!
-
- Interesting but irrelevant graphic image.
-
- >As I've said previously, you got off easily with _only_ well-deserved
- >flames. I suspect that many people, presented with your "behavior", would
- >find it difficult to restrain themselves from pounding a stake through your
- >heart and stuffing your mouth with garlic.
-
- People's violent tendencies are ultimately their own problems, Lefty.
-
- >> "He made several ..."
- >>
- >> Incorrect. The whole flamewar stemmed from a single post.
- >
- >The whole flame war _originated_ with a single post. This was followed up
- >by a large number of explanations, denials, exegeses and exculpations on
- >your part.
-
- In response to an equal or larger number of lies, misrepresentations, smears,
- baiting, agitation, preaching-from-the-pulpit, mindless name-calling and
- obscenities, etc. etc. Your point?
-
- >Finally, you hawked up something that very vaguely resembled an
- >apology, but smelled like something that had died in agony a month
- >previously.
-
- Are you having olfactory hallucinations now?
-
- >> "...tasteless, tactless and mean-spirited..."
- >>
- >> Speculation presented as fact. My post attacked the spectacle of a
- >> child molester bragging about his exploits.
- >
- >You claim that you _thought_ your post did this. What you in fact did was
- >accuse a _victim_ of molestation of being himself a child molester. Your
- >protestations to the contrary have been somewhat less than convincing.
-
- I never "protested to the contrary", Lefty. I admitted my mistake as soon as
- it was apparent.
-
- >> I doubt that anyone would consider my behavior, placed in the context of
- >> that interpretation, as "tasteless, tactless and mean-spirited".
- >
- >I doubt that anyone with more than two functioning neurons would consider
- >it in any other way.
-
- So you're saying you WOULDN'T verbally attack a child molester who publically
- bragged about his exploits (thus tacitly condoning the behavior)??!?!?!
-
- And you castigate me for MY morals, eh?
-
- >This would seem to be supported by the large number
- >decrying your posting as being _precisely_ "tasteless, tactless and
- >mean-spirited", and the notable lack of people springing to your defense.
-
- The "large number" was strategically predisposed to believe this, by a long-
- running campaign of smears, lies, misrepresentations conducted against me. The
- truth of the situation had very little to do with their beliefs.
-
- >Well, Steve Franklin did defend you, but he doesn't count.
- >
- >Not higher than five, anyway.
-
- Ha-yuck. Ha-yuck.
-
- >> As it happened, my interpretation was incorrect. I have apologized for that
- >> error. But error is not the same as malice, and the presence of malice in
- >> this instance is purely a matter of speculation on Mr. Lyman's part.
- >
- >Your "apology" was only slight less disgusting than your original
- >accusation. It is certainly clear from where _I_ happen to be standing
- >that your accusation was based purely on malice.
-
- So you proclaim, in typical Lefty chest-thumping fashion. Ho hum.
-
- Perhaps you ought to alter where you "happen to be standing". Somewhere
- within Reality would be nice.
-
- >Would you care to deny,
- >here and now, that you bear an animus towards Susan Garvin?
-
- I bear an animus against child molesters who brag about their exploits on
- the Net. And I would not hesitate to make fun of, in alt.flame, someone who
- openly admits having an intimate relationship with someone who is, to all
- appearances, such a person. Those are the only relevant motivational variables
- here.
-
- >> "...about a t.a participant's SO's experience..."
- >>
- >> Misleading. My article was posted exclusively to alt.flame, where it
- >> was completely appropriate.
- >
- >You appear to be using the word "appropriate" in some sense with which I am
- >unfamiliar.
-
- Then please familiarize yourself with a dictionary and/or the Net.
-
- >Would you consider accusing a rape victim of being a rapist
- >"appropriate" in alt.flame? How about accusing a Jew of being a Nazi? How
- >about calling a homosexual a homophobe?
-
- In alt.flame, sure. What do you suppose the purpose of the group is, if not
- to flame? Where else would you RATHER see flames like that?
-
- Oh wait, I'm asking this of the person who seems to think alt.flame is an
- appropriate place to conduct private business transactions?? Never mind.
-
- >> The term "t.a participant" seems to insinuate that I inflicted the flames
- >> on talk.abortion, when in fact the parties guilty of _that_ particular
- >> offense have never owned up or apologized for their actions.
- >
- >It insinuates nothing of the sort. It means precisely what it says. Do
- >you deny that Susan is a "t.a participant"?
-
- Of course not. That's a straw man.
-
- A better question is: "what is the purpose of pointing out Susie's
- 'participation in t.a' if not to mislead people into thinking that the
- flames were initiated in t.a? What other purpose does the modifier serve?"
-
- - Kevin
-