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- From: kevin@rotag.mi.org (Kevin Darcy)
- Subject: Re: Biological Reasons fo
- Message-ID: <1992Nov20.191141.11640@rotag.mi.org>
- Organization: Who, me???
- References: <1e9108INNlmu@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com> <BxuK2B.32F@ddsw1.mcs.com> <1ebjs2INNmmn@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com>
- Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 19:11:41 GMT
- Lines: 78
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- In article <1ebjs2INNmmn@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com> regard@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com (Adrienne Regard) writes:
- >In article <BxuK2B.32F@ddsw1.mcs.com> karl@ddsw1.mcs.com (Karl Denninger) writes:
- >>In article <1e9108INNlmu@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com> regard@hpsdde.sdd.hp.com (Adrienne Regard) writes:
- >>>In article <BxsMAv.93I@ddsw1.mcs.com> karl@ddsw1.mcs.com (Karl Denninger) writes:
- >>>>I suppose then that you won't mind if all of us men who see it as terribly
- >>>>unequal that women can choose AFTER sex whether or not to have a child,
- >>>>while we cannot, make damn sure you LOSE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE.
- >>>This fellow isn't out to equalize the situation between parents. He's out
- >>>to take away a woman's bodily autonomy because he can't get a legal 'out'
- >>>to a biological reality.
- >>Nope. There is no biological reality which claims that it is necessary that
- >>since I pulled down my zipper as a man, that I want to support a child if
- >>one ensues - EVEN IF I PRACTICE BIRTH CONTROL.
- >
- >Karl, you are missing one very important point, entirely.
- >
- >A woman's right to abort has nothing to do with her 'right to be a parent'
- >or her 'right not to be a parent'. That isn't a right that anybody has
- >(probably on account of it would make for very difficult definition and
- >protections). What a woman has is the right to define how her physical
- >body will or will not be used.
- >
- >Which is precisely analogous and symetrical to a man's right to determine how
- >his physical body will or will not be used.
- >
- >However, the minute to transmute a woman's right to PHYSICAL soveriegnty
- >into some kind of social obligation, you get a dandy, but useless, argument
- >for male-choice. Because you are basing your argument on air.
-
- But this is *EXACTLY* what you apologists are doing, Adrienne. Can't you
- see that? Under the current repugnant laws, the woman's choice to carry the
- child to term (an exercise of her physical sovereignty) translates into a
- social obligation for the man (paternity child support). The very thing
- you criticize here, is what you are defending. You're admitting that the
- current paternity child support laws are based on "air" [sic].
-
- >See, I've participated in this particular discussion a number of times
- >over the years, and I've heard and we've seen on this net, all kinds of
- >anecdotal evidence to support both sides of the argument. But I've never
- >seen any information that would help persuade me that this is a real
- >problem that really needs addressing through legislative action, and that
- >the cost of the cure, as I perceive it, is more than born out by the
- >current cost of the problem.
- >
- >Now, I fancy myself to be a semi reasonable person. I have been swayed
- >by arguments pro and con on birth control, gun control, abortion, literally
- >hundreds of local ballot measures, etc. Do you have any data that can help
- >convince the reasonable persons on this net that we are facing a 'real'
- >problem that needs a legislative solution?
-
- "See no evil", eh, Adrienne? Don't those blinders get a little uncomfortable?
-
- I guess all those men who are being jailed, or their lives and/or careers
- otherwise destroyed, are "invisible" to you, eh? How conveeeeeenient.
-
- >The presumption that the parents of the child (defined by law) will be
- >required to support the child (defined by law, and satisfied within hte
- >confines of still more definition having to do with 'ability to pay') is
- >a presumption adopted by the state because of two things: 1. it pretty
- >much reflected our historical practice* and 2. it is less costly to the
- >state to set it up this way.
-
- #1 is incorrect. Under the Common Law, an illegitimate child was considered
- "nobody's child", and had no rights to inheritance or support.
-
- #2 is very probably incorrect, since Adrienne apparently isn't factoring in
- how removing the "free ride" effect might deter impatient-mother-wannabes
- from creating these "problems" in the first place (thereby reducing the
- cost to the state).
-
- >>Women can either decide to fight >with< men for reproductive freedom, or
- >>against men.
- >
- >Too bad you see it as an either/or battle, Karl.
-
- Translation: resistance is futile, you will be assimilated.
-
- - Kevin
-