NetNews Usenet Archive 1992 #27/NN_1992_27.iso/spool/alt/support/1452

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Newsgroups: alt.support
Subject: Does he mean what he said?
Message-ID: <[e-mail]>
Date: 21 Nov 92 23:37:30 -0600
Summary: dating!
Reply-To: [e-mail]
Organization: University of Northern Iowa
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        I am getting so frustrated with this dating thing.  About a month ago I
asked out this guy.  We went out had a great time and when we see eachother in
class we joke around and have a great time.  I think he likes me, but he hasn't
asked me out yet.  So, being the woman of the 90s, I asked him out again for
the beginning of December when there is this huge Christmas concert that is
sold out.  He responded well and then asked when it was.  I told him and then
he said that he didn't know.  He would have to see because he was really busy
the beginning of December and maybe wouldn't have the time.
        Now I know that I should take it to mean as he said, but is he covering
up?  Is he trying to get out of it by not telling me the truth?  I know that I
am analyzing it to death, but I just don't know.  I am almost to the point of
giving up.  I am tired of taking all the risks.
        I just keep going back and forth on this.  I'll wait to see what he
finally decides after Thanksgiving break, but should I ask him to be honest
with me about where this thing is going?  Should I leave it up to him?  Should
I just ask him out one more time?  I don't know and I am getting really
frustrated.  Why can't things just go easy, even for a little while!?!
Melissa