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  3. From: thomas@datamark.co.nz (Thomas Beagle)
  4. Newsgroups: soc.couples,soc.singles
  5. Subject: Re: Orgasms + Children
  6. Message-ID: <1993Jan24.104839.24031@datamark.co.nz>
  7. Date: 24 Jan 93 10:48:39 GMT
  8. References: <1993Jan19.030257.24475@samba.oit.unc.edu> <1993Jan22.181623.17581@midway.uchicago.edu> <93023.121620SAUNDRSG@QUCDN.QueensU.CA>
  9. Organization: Datamark International Ltd.
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  11.  
  12. In article <93023.121620SAUNDRSG@QUCDN.QueensU.CA> Graydon <SAUNDRSG@QUCDN.QueensU.CA> writes:
  13. >Hmm .. to throw in my two denarri, much of my trouble with
  14. >'taking too long' is emotional - it has not always been clear that
  15. >the person I'm with particularly *wants* me to come, at least
  16. >inside that 'but how could anyone *possibly* like me?' part of
  17. >my mind.
  18.  
  19. I met the problem a few times and found that it happened when I
  20. concentrated too much on analysing what I was doing rather than just
  21. going with the flow.
  22.  
  23. Relaxing a little bit and concentrating on the sensations seemed to
  24. fix the problem.
  25. -- 
  26.     Thomas Beagle | thomas@datamark.co.nz           Work: 64 4 233 8186
  27.  Technical Writer | thomas@cavebbs.welly.gen.nz     Home: 64 4 499 3832
  28.    Wellington, NZ | Yes, I do have long ears, a black nose, and a tail.
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