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  3. From: pjbulfor@cayley.uwaterloo.ca (Pete "the Frog" Bulford)
  4. Subject: Re: Pete the Ignorant
  5. Message-ID: <C1H4oF.45v@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu>
  6. Sender: news@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu
  7. Organization: University of Waterloo
  8. References: <C1FJtq.Ltu@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu> <1993Jan26.000327.6874@meiko.com>
  9. Date: Tue, 26 Jan 1993 18:29:02 GMT
  10. Lines: 37
  11.  
  12. lorreen@meiko.com (Lorreen Pelletier) writes:
  13. >pjbulfor@cayley.uwaterloo.ca (Pete "the Frog" Bulford) writes:
  14. >: >: >> [intro to Pete's life starting as a poly-person...]
  15. >: >: >[Some advice for Pete]
  16. >: >[more advice for Pete]
  17. >: >[ three-way poly relationship vs. independent relationships...]
  18. >: >
  19. >: Three-way seems to be the way that this is going although perhaps
  20. >: I shall look into the independance of said relationships.
  21. >
  22. >: [Pete meets the other man]
  23. >
  24. >: My relationship with her is developing with only a small bit
  25. >: of uncertainty.  Overall, I would say that things are going 
  26. >: rather well aside from the fact that I have still not 
  27. >: developed a primary relationship of my own yet... <sigh>...
  28. >
  29. >Okay, Pete.  You've got me a little worried about you.  Please don't
  30. >continue this relationship if you're doing it because it's the next best
  31. >thing to a "primary" relationship of your own.  It's very, very important
  32. >that you accept this relationship on its own terms, because *it* is
  33. >something you want.
  34. >
  35. EEeekkk!  Egads no!  I most certainly aren't just 'holding-on-to
  36. -this-relationship-because-its-the-next-best-thing'!  Very bad.
  37. Blech.  I assure you that I am currently awaiting a 'primary'
  38. relationship to occur in my life and value this relationship
  39. *because* it is only a 'secondary-type' relationship.
  40.  
  41. >And, good luck finding that "special" someone.  I hope T's encouraging you:->
  42. >
  43. >--Lorreen
  44.  
  45. Thanks for the warmth.
  46.  
  47. Pete
  48.  
  49.