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- From: bleys@wisdom.bubble.org (Bill Cavanaugh)
- Newsgroups: rec.martial-arts
- Subject: Re: Thai kickboxing
- Message-ID: <1993Jan02.062954.11574@wisdom.bubble.org>
- Date: 2 Jan 93 06:29:54 GMT
- References: <MARY.92Dec31095109@martinique.Cayman.COM> <1993Jan01.075416.1570@wisdom.bubble.org> <MARY.93Jan1145951@martinique.Cayman.COM>
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- In article <MARY.93Jan1145951@martinique.Cayman.COM> mary@Cayman.COM (Mary Malmros) writes:
- >
- >In article <1993Jan01.075416.1570@wisdom.bubble.org> bleys@wisdom.bubble.org (Bill Cavanaugh) writes:
- >
- > I think (hope) what Bob was referring to was the likelyhood that he would
- > be attacked in a place and situation where the attacker had been drinking.
- > Since most of us only find ourselves in such places if >we're< drinking,
- > and since those kinds of altercations usually happen later in the night,
- > it's a good bet that the defender is not completely sober...
- >
- >I'm sure that's what he was referring to as well. My point was that
- >drinking messes you up, to a greater or lesser degree. If you drink,
- >to be on the safe side, you should assume that it will have some negative
- >effect on just about anything you do. It will, in general, assist you in
- >being loud, obnoxious, belligerent, and stupid, but that's about it.
- >
- Sure, it'll assist in that behavior, but it doesn't necessarily lead to it.
- Many of us can go out with our friends and spend six or eight hours in a
- bar without becoming inebriated or belligerent. It doesn't meant that
- we're gonna be completely sober, just not far enough gone to be picking
- fights.
-
- (just as an aside about the next paragraph, I used to hang in a bar that
- was the "home" of a bike club. It was in a nasty part of the city, the
- people that hung there usually had some sort of weapon on them, and it was
- the most polite crowd I've ever seen. In the nicer parts of town I saw a
- lot more fights and rudeness than I EVER saw in the bad places)
-
- >Going out and getting drunk, especially in a rowdy bar or nasty part of
- >town, is a little like bungee jumping. You're engaging in a risky
- >behavior that's completely optional. Nobody is making you do it. Some
- >people decide they want to do it anyway, for the rush or the thrill or
- >the exquisite experience of puking against the side of someone's Camaro
- >afterwards. So you use some kind of failsafe...but you want to make
- >sure that your failsafe was designed with that sort of risky behavior
- >in mind. You don't take the nifty bungee-cord-chain that your older
- >brother showed you how to build as an improvised cargo net and jump off
- >a bridge with it, and you don't take the jumping wheel kick that your
- >sabumnim taught you and try to take out an assailant in a parking lot
- >when you're three sheets to the wind. That's not the use they were
- >intended for, and it's not why they were taught to you. If you insist
- >in trying to use them in an inappropriate situation, you shouldn't
- >blame them for not working.
- >
-
- That was his point. That the the places and situations he felt he'd need
- to use the art were, by definition, inappropriate for it.
-
- >Personally, I don't have a lot of respect for people who expect a
- >martial art to save them from the consequences of their own stupidity
-
- (neither does anybody else here. I'm not sure how it applies to this
- discussion, though...)
-
- >(and I am not saying that Bob falls into that category, at all). I
- >have respect for people who are forced to live or travel in risky
- >areas, who do their best to avoid problems rather than court them
- >or create them, and who defend themselves to the best of their ability
- >when they must. I think that any martial art can offer a lot to someone
- >like that. The techniques are tools: they have no intrinsic value,
- >and are useful only when chosen with care and used appropriately.
-
- Right. Exactly. TKD is a wrench. Bob needs a hammer. He could learn,
- with practice, to drive nails with the wrench, but it wouldn't make any
- sense to do that when there are perfectly good hammers available.
-
- bill
- p.s. sorry about the excessive quoting, folks, but I really couldn't see
- anyplace to trim Mary's post without losing the sense of what she's saying.
- Blame her for being concise instead of long-winded, like some of
- us...<chuckle>
- --
- * Bill Cavanaugh bleys@wisdom.bubble.org *
- XY + XX = :-)
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