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- From: an4124@anon.penet.fi
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- Message-ID: <1992Dec29.090539.29692@fuug.fi>
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- Date: Tue, 29 Dec 1992 08:56:48 GMT
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- Hi!
-
- I'm kind of a beginner at this, and haven't really had much exposure to
- people who are into bd/sm sorts of things, except through reading the
- various newsgroups. I've done some mild bondage (tying up a lover during
- sex, etc) and have exchanged commands and orders for real-life actions
- with friends via email and telephone. We talked about a lot more
- than we did, basically.
-
- Anyway, I am at a stage now where I am trying to determine just where my
- tastes lie. I know I'm male and hetero; I know that stories I've read
- about permanent slavery and debasement do bother me a bit... Other than
- that I'm not too sure. Somehow I have a feeling that I'll end up
- considering myself a "switch hitter" -- I'll end up enjoying topping and
- bottoming equally but for different reasons.
-
- I'm not really asking for anything except perhaps for someone to tell me
- a little about how you got into this kind of thing, what you enjoy about
- it (about topping especially -- i've been more curious about the
- dominant side of me lately) And what keeps it interesting... :)
-
- Anyway, thanks, and I'll try to write back!
-
-
- me
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