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- From: cathy@octel.com (Cathy Kearns)
- Subject: Re: episiotomies.....your doctor is lazy
- Message-ID: <1992Nov17.171853.17275@octel.com>
- Organization: Octel Communications Inc., Milpitas Ca.
- References: <1426@emoryu1.cc.emory.edu> <BxtuKG.EuL@acsu.buffalo.edu> <owens.721958559@gargoyle.uchicago.edu>
- Date: Tue, 17 Nov 1992 17:18:53 GMT
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- In article <owens.721958559@gargoyle.uchicago.edu> owens@gargoyle.uchicago.edu (Christopher Owens) writes:
- >One thing that has become really clear is that the way to minimize
- >your chances of having an episiotomy is by selecting your practitioner
- >carefully, not by trying to argue it out either before or during the
- >actual delivery.
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- >My wife's OB said:
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- > "I only do them when medically necessary, Of course, everybody says
- > that; all I can add to reassure you is that my rate of doing them
- > is statistically pretty low (she gave us a number which I forget).
- > But the decision really is a spur-of-the-moment one. Tears do not
- > always happen gradually over several contractions; sometimes the
- > perineum reaches its limit and then ruptures explosively. I can't
- > promise you that I won't cut, but I can promise that I'll be with
- > you during the pushing phase of labor, massaging and stretching the
- > perineum as gradually and gently as possible. If you do end up
- > with an episiotomy, I'll be able to honestly say that I did
- > everything I know how to avoid it."
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- >That's the kind of answer I'd look for in response to the "what about
- >episiotomies?" question, rather than a doctrinaire "I never do them,"
- >or "Everybody needs one."
-
- This is great advice! I remember my doctor saying, at the first pre-natal
- visit, that if I prefered a Bradley Birth I needed to find some one else,
- she was not trained to do Bradley Births and couldn't give me the experience
- I was looking for if that was my preference. She also was very clear
- on epidurals, (she preferred one for her birth, and if I requested one would
- have no problem with ordering one), episiotomies, (she tried not to do
- them, but it was her experience that she did end up doing them on 80% of
- her first time patients), cesarians (though she, and her partners, had an
- 80% epidural rate! they also had a ~10% C-section rate, which was quite
- low for the area.) etc. She and her partners were very up front about what
- they were trained to do, and what they weren't. I had a very positive
- birth experience because I agreed with their philosophies. Don't try and
- change your doctor's philosophy (mostly, because in the heat of labor you
- may find out you didn't make as much a dent in their philosophy as you
- thought) but go for the doctor and/or midwife that wants to do it your
- way. Note: this means your doctor may not be perfect for everyone, just
- for you.
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- Cathy
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