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- From: oispeggy@ubvmsc.cc.buffalo.edu (Peggy Brown)
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- Subject: Re: Women Vs Men
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- Date: 18 Nov 92 14:39:00 GMT
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- In article <memo.750837@cix.compulink.co.uk>, shaman@cix.compulink.co.uk writes...
- >oispeggy@ubvmsb.cc.buffalo.edu (Peggy Brown) writes..
- >
- >
- >
- >Peggy: I want to say one thing very clearly, as an expression of a
- >position.
- >
- >Firstly, a question.
- >
- >What is the optimum role that you consider a medaiaeval woman could
- >have held, given that any normal healthy woman with an active sex
- >life could expect to be pregnant, or nursing a child, more or less
- >continuously from her mid-teens to her mid thirties?
-
- Hmmmmm....the optimum role.... The optimum role for the typical
- exploitative, self-serving, egotistic medieval woman would
- be to have piles of wealth and (somehow) lots of influence so the
- church and politics would leave her alone. Regarding the
- breeding aspect, she'd select a group of stud-males to service
- her, and nannies to take care of the babies. Whether or not a
- female could have actually managed to do this is doubtful.
- Realistically, the best a female could do would be to marry
- someone rich and make the best of it. (I think that would be
- better than entering a convent.)
-
- >Secondly a statement.
- >
- >What irks me mostly about 'feminism' is not that I disagree that
- >women have in many senses been disadvantaged by mediaeval culture and
- >its descendants, but that there is always a veiled or implicit
- >assumption that 'male superiority' or 'Patriarchy' was some sort of
- >male organised conspiracy to suppress women and their natural rights.
-
- Take a look at legal and social restrictions on women for the
- past several hundred years. These were made by men. I wouldn't
- call it a conspiracy, because the men who did this believed they
- were doing the right thing. Yet it resulted in keeping women in
- a subservient position. Glad this stuff is slowly being changed.
-
- IMO a lot of the bad feelings men have toward feminism is because
- they are made to feel at fault for injustices that they had
- nothing to do with. I don't think that's fair. If this aspect
- bugs you, I can see why - try not to take it seriously.
-
- >I cannot agree with this. In most agrarian cultures men and women
- >work unceasingly. It so happens that because of the facts of
- >childbirth, women tend to be more based around the home, and less
- >active. I feel that culture reflects this: The shift to what
- >feminists see as 'male dominated' I think takes place at a time when
- >'civilization' itself - that is the change from the essentially
- >peasant farming traditions of the Celtic society, to the more Roman
- >pattern, with trade and merchanting becomeing significant.
-
- Agrarian culture is one thing. As culture evolved,
- discrimination against women was institutionalized in law and
- religion. Just because it happened that way is to reason to say
- it was OK.
-
- >In this milieu, women adapted to a different role, and although few
- >actually achieved active prominence, it is ridiculous to feel that
- >their influence was negligible. They worked through men - that's all.
- >They had more time to think maybe, whereas the men had more
- >opportunity to do. Histories of deeds emphasise men.
-
- Agrarian culture is one thing. As culture evolved,
- discrimination against women was institutionalized in law and
- religion. Just because it happened that way is to reason to say
- it was OK.
-
- >In particular history is littered with veiled references of eminent
- >men who actually achieved greatness with the assistnace of, or maybe
- >entirely because of, the able assistance of a wife or mistress.
-
- Big deal.
-
- >Now all that doesn't mean that I defend the relics of that particular
- >life-style as any more 'natural' or 'right' than the hunter gatherer
- >or pre-civilized agrarian societies. Societies adapt to conditions
- >and select their mores from what is possible and seems desirable.
-
- Nice objective way to look at it. But little consolation for
- those who happend to be among the underlings.
-
- >The fact that women now are _not_ tied to childbirth any more than
-
- Being tied to childbirth is no reason for women to have
- ever been treated unfairly by legal and religious systems.
-
- >the choose to be is - in my mind - the significant change. This
- >*does* allow active participation in all walks of life, and the sort
- >of society that simply has never existed before.
-
- Not sure exactly what the point of all this is. I don't think
- women have been treated fairly. I don't think that because
- society happened to evolve this way justifies it. I don't think
- men who had nothing to do with this should feel responsible or
- guilty about it.
-
- >So to summarise, I am all for change and a new order (provided it
- >isn't rammed down MY throat) - but please: I don't think it is
- >helpful (and I don't think you normally display this trend anyway, or
- >were even displaying it this timne!) for feminists to think in terms
- >of some vast male conspiracy.
-
- I've read enough of your battles with females on alt.pagan to
- know that feminism bugs you. Maybe because of the way women often
- personalize it, blame men who are not responsible for injustices,
- and generally behave like asses. Not my style of feminism. All
- I can say is don't equate the message with the idiots.
-
- >I think it more constructive to think of it as a response to social
- >circumstance.
-
- I think that's a weak justification for people's (males' and
- females') natural tendency to exploit when give the chance to do
- so. A more enlightened model is needed.
-
- - Peggy -
-