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- ESSENTIAL ADVICE ON MEDITATION
- excerpts from Teachings by Sogyal Rinpoche
-
- When you read books about meditation, or often when meditation is
- is presented by different groups, much of the emphasis falls on
- the techniques. In the West, people tend to be very interested in
- the "technology" of meditation. However, by far the most
- important feature of meditation is not technique, but the way of
- being, the spirit, which is callled the "posture", a posture
- which is not so much physical, but more to do with spirit or
- attitude.
-
- It is well to recognize that when you start on a meditation
- practice, you are entering a totally different dimension of
- reality. Normally in life we put a great deal of effort into
- achieving things, and there is a lot of struggle involved,
- whereas meditation is just the opposite, it is a break from how
- we normally operate.
-
- Meditation is simply a question of being, of melting, like a
- piece of butter left in the sun. It has nothing to do with
- whether or not you "know" anything about it, in fact, each time
- you practice meditation it should be fresh, as if it were
- happening for the very first time. You just quietly sit, your
- body still, your speech silent, your mind at ease, and allow
- thoughts to come and go, without letting them play havoc on you.
- If you need something to do, then watch the breathing. This is a
- very simple process. When you are breathing out, know that you
- are breathing out. When you breath in, know that you are
- breathing in, without supplying any kind of extra commentary or
- internalized mental gossip, but just identifying with the breath.
- That very simple process of mindfulness processes your thoughts
- and emotions, and then, like an old skin being shed, something is
- peeled off and freed.
-
- Usually people tend to relax the body by concentrating on
- different parts. Real relaxation comes when you relax from
- within, for then everything else will ease itself out quite
- naturally.
-
- When you begin to practice, you center yourself, in touch with
- your "soft spot", and just remain there. You need not focus on
- anything in particular to begin with. Just be spacious, and allow
- thoughts and emotions to settle. If you do so, then later, when
- you use a method such as watching the breath, your attention will
- more easily be on your breathing. There is no particular point on
- the breath on which you need to focus, it is simply the process
- of breathing. Twenty-five percent of your attention is on the
- breath, and seventy-five percent is relaxed. Try to actually
- identify with the breathing, rather than just watching it. You
- may choose an object, like a flower, for example, to focus upon.
- Sometimes you are taught to visualize a light on the forehead, or
- in the heart. Sometimes a sound or a mantra can be used. But at
- the beginning it is best to simply be spacious, like the sky.
- Think of yourself as the sky, holding the whole universe.
-
- When you sit, let things settle and allow all your discordant
- self with its ungenuineness and unnaturalness to disolve, out
- of that rises your real being. You experience an aspect of
- yourself which is more genuine and more authentic-the "real" you.
- As you go deeper, you begin to discover and connect with your
- fundamental goodness.
-
- The whole point of meditation is to get used to the that aspect
- which you have forgotten. In Tibetan "meditation" means "getting
- used to". Getting used to what? to your true nature, your Buddha
- nature. This is why, in the highest teaching of Buddhism,
- Dzogchen, you are told to "rest in the nature of mind". You just
- quietly sit and let all thoughts and concepts dissolve. It is
- like when the clouds dissolve or the mist evaporates, to reveal
- the clear sky and the sun shining down. When everything dissolves
- like this, you begin to experience your true nature, to "live".
- Then you know it, and at that moment, you feel really good. It is
- unlike any other feeling of well being that you might have
- experienced. This is a real and genuine goodness, in which you
- feel a deep sense of peace, contentment and confidence about
- yourself.
-
- It is good to meditate when you feel inspired. Early mornings can
- bring that inspiration, as the best moments of the mind are early
- in the day, when the mind is calmer and fresher (the time
- traditionaly recommended is before dawn). It is more appropriate
- to sit when you are inspired, for not only is it easier then as
- you are in a better frame of mind for meditation, but you will
- also be more encouraged by the very practice that you do. THis in
- turn will bring more confidence in the practice, and later on you
- will be able to practice when you are not inspired. There is no
- need to meditate for a long time: just remain quietly until you
- are a little open and able to connect with your heart essence.
- That is the main point.
-
- After that, some integration, or meditation in action. Once your
- mindfulness has been awakened by your meditation, your mind is
- calm and your perception a little more coherent. Then, whatever
- you do, you are present, right there. As in the famous Zen
- master's saying: "When I eat, I eat; when I sleep, I sleep".
- Whatever you do, you are fully present in the act. Even washing
- dishes, if it is done one-pointedly, can be very energizing,
- freeing, cleansing. You are more peaceful, so you are more "you".
- You assume the "Universal You".
-
- One of the fundamental points of the spiritual journey is to
- persevere along the path. Though one's meditation may be good one
- day and and not so good the next, like changes in scenery,
- essentially it is not the experiences, good or bad which count so
- much, but rather that when you persevere, the real practice rubs
- off on you and comes through both good and bad. Good and bad are
- simply apparations, just as there may be good or bad weather, yet
- the sky is always unchanging. If you persevere and have that sky
- like attitude of spaciousness, without being perturbed by
- emotions and experiences, you will develop stability and the real
- profoundness of meditation will take effect. You will find that
- gradually and almost unnoticed, your attitude begins to change.
- You do not hold on to things as solidly as before, or grasp at
- them so strongly, and though crisis will still happen, you can
- handle them a bit better with more humor and ease. You will even
- be able to laugh at difficulties a little, since there is more
- space between you and them, and you are freer of yourself. Things
- become less solid, slightly ridiculous, and you become more
- light-hearted.