Four-month-old Jae-hyun, shown here in a Korean foster home, will need surgery for his cleft lip and palate. His adoptive parents, Joe and Julie Fugazzi, have named him Will. (Photograph by J. H. Yun)

ulie Fugazzi describes the emptiness: "A part of me would not be filled until I could be a parent." For three years, she and her husband Joe went through the inevitable highs and lows felt by couples struggling to have a baby. Month after month, they were disappointed. After Julie and Joe finally accepted the reality that they could not conceive, they made the decision to explore adoption of a foreign-born baby.

Foreign babies have become a popular choice of American couples because demand for healthy American infants far exceeds supply. Soon after deciding to adopt, Joe visited a website that displays photos of babies from other countries. Most had serious medical problems that the couple just didn't feel they could handle.

Then Joe came across a new listing for a male Korean baby named Jae-hyun, who had a cleft lip and palate but no serious illness. Joe and Julie both felt a powerful attraction to this child and decided on the spot that they wanted to bring him home. "We both knew -- that was our baby," says Julie.

Joe and Julie Fugazzi at the Portland, Oregon, airport, prior to departing for Korea to pick up their infant son, Jae-hyun. After years of trying to have a baby, the couple spotted Jae-hyun on a website with photo listings of foreign-born babies available for adoption. (Photograph by David Falconer )

Nancy Fox, director of Americans for International Aid and Adoption, the agency that handled the Fugazzi adoption, says the website allows couples to see handicapped babies as real people instead of medical liabilities. "I see cyberspace as a technological stork helping our children find families, one child at a time," Nancy says.

Julie says their lives have changed completely with the addition of the baby they named Will. "I'm definitely not sleeping as much, and it's hard to talk on the phone," she says, laughing. "But it's the most incredible thing that's ever happened. Going from just the two of us to the three of us -- it's incredible."



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