How many of you have had ex boyfriends. You know the boys that you thought oh i like him so much and hes so pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!!
hee hee... i know exactlly what you mean aren't ex-boyfreinds the ultimate scum?
Or, I just love these...
oh, goodness. i know exactly what you girls are talking about! these goofs that you spent so much time and emotion on, and then find out that it really wasn't even worth getting to know their first name! yep, i know about that! but...if it weren't for the goofs, then we wouldn't be able to learn from our mistakes (of course, some choose not to, but we won't go into that now) and go on with it.
I can defincately relate. The sort of guys you get all hung up on, only to find that they're absolute assholes who don't give Christmas gifts, (Even if you do), and who get out of doing anything for Valentine's Day, (When you planning something sooo special.) Yeah, I know a few...
My friend had a boyfiend who for her birthday stole some of his moms earrings and gave them to her. How did i know well a couple days later he came to school and told her his mom wanted her earrings back!!!
My ex is a total bastard. He did not introduce me to his friends and family because (he claimed) that they wouldn't accept him dating out of his race. He would tell me to go home if he was talking to his friends in his language and I was bored. He would make me take my car all the time and never make any effort. And our relationship was blatantly about sex and that is all
my ex dumped me (damn players!). for a long time, i was so hung up on him, and i didn't know why he did it. but i'm okay know. In fact, i feel so much better! the next time i see him, i am going to make fun of him going to a Catholic school, and chewing in his helmet strap. no offense to catholic school goers. it's just that he is so non-christain, non-moral, sick-minded, dumb, a player who beds a girl at any chance.... It's hard to see him at a christan school. t times i wonder what i ever saw in him, and i wonder if it all was blantantly about sex in the first place.
or the ones that refuse to admit your existence even years later
i hate those guys. one of my ex's is like that he totally ignores me - which is hard to do because i have a loud voice and requently need to talk to him when rehaersing in drama. it's really annoying to know that he is purposely ignoring me.
wouldn't you rather have an ex than never having a boyfriend?????i wouldn't! ex boyfriends are a bunch of t~#@?!s and it is scientiffically proven that grrls can live longer without boys but boys don't live as long without grrls.anyway notice how grrls are a lot nicer to each other when they don't have boyfriends????
wouldn't you rather have an ex than never having a boyfriend?????i wouldn't! ex boyfriends are a bunch of t~#@?!s and it is scientiffically proven that grrls can live longer without boys but boys don't live as long without grrls.anyway notice how grrls are a lot nicer to each other when they don't have boyfriends????
wouldn't you rather have an ex than never having a boyfriend?????i wouldn't! ex boyfriends are a bunch of t~#@?!s and it is scientiffically proven that grrls can live longer without boys but boys don't live as long without grrls.anyway notice how grrls are a lot nicer to each other when they don't have boyfriends????
wouldn't you rather have an ex than never having a boyfriend?????i wouldn't! ex boyfriends are a bunch of t~#@?!s and it is scientiffically proven that grrls can live longer without boys but boys don't live as long without grrls.anyway notice how grrls are a lot nicer to each other when they don't have boyfriends????
Kung fu grrl - you are so right. When one girl is in a relationship and her and her boyf start getting all luvvy in public, there is a helluva lotta jealousy if the girl's best mate hasn't got someone to be all luvvy with herself. By the way, would you like to hear my "My ex-boyf is a twat" story. Ok, here goes. I met this guy at a New Year's Eve party and we got on really well, so he asked me out. We had one date and i thought it had gone really well, but then i don't hear from him in 2 weeks- I see him at a mate's house party, he tells me how sorry he is, hopes he hasn't hurt me etc. KNOWS that i still fancy him and just goes ahead and gets off with ths other girl in my class - apparently, he didn't realise how much this would hurt me - YEAH RIGHT!! Anyway, this is my 1st time posting here. This is a really cool site - kinda like an online support group (?)
Becks you're right about not letting them get you down, but it can be so damn hard! likemy ex, he's going to live with his mom for the summer, in Pheonix, Arizona. i live in southern illinois. after he leaves on MONDAY, i won't be able to see him, cause he's gone all summer, then i move when school starts! i still Really Really Really like him, but he just ignores me. i was talking to a pal and she said i should write him a letter and tell him how i feel cause we've been avioding each other ever since our breakup last september. recently i haven't thought about him cause i have another guy, who is so wonderful and perfect, and i love him so much, but when i heard from my "brother" [my really close guy friend] that he was leaving Monday, all the memories came back from last summer, and i just ohh, i can't even say it! i talked to my brother and he said tyhat he didn't think a note would change anything. him and kevin [the guy] are closerthanthis, but kevin still won't tell him why he even dumped me, or if he's upset with me, or if he thinks i hate him, or anything concerning me in the least! it's really hard and i don't know how to handle it or what to do and i'm running out of time! what do you guys think? i still really like him...
D'ya wanna know what I think? I think you should forget him, cos if he's moving away, and you have a new guy anyway ... well, to me it doesn't make much sense to go chasing after him. And as for the feelings - nostalgia? Whatever you do you're probably gonna regret it (optimistic huh?), but that's what I would do. Anyway, see ya,
D'ya wanna know what I think? I think you should forget him, cos if he's moving away, and you have a new guy anyway ... well, to me it doesn't make much sense to go chasing after him. And as for the feelings - nostalgia? Whatever you do you're probably gonna regret it (optimistic huh?), but that's what I would do. Anyway, see ya,
D'ya wanna know what I think? I think you should forget him, cos if he's moving away, and you have a new guy anyway ... well, to me it doesn't make much sense to go chasing after him. And as for the feelings - nostalgia? Whatever you do you're probably gonna regret it (optimistic huh?), but that's what I would do. Anyway, see ya,
Not to in anyway attack or offend Becks comment:
To Keely...Get over it!! No guy that has dumped you deserves to have you stuck on him still!! Believe me, guys aren't worth it, no matter how cool, or talented, or suited to you he may seem!! I know!! I was totally used by my best guy friend, his name was Drew. Anyway, Drew and I hung out with another girl, but they were closer friends, I felt that wehn we started to go out, she was secretly jealous. When he broke up with me, I was crushed!! Not only had I lost my friendship with him!! I had lost it with her! I, to this day, feel like they hate me. When people told me to get over it, I just wanted to kill them! It was so hard, and it still hurts.
okay you ppl all seem to think your exes are, like, complete bastards, but what about those of us who are on the other side of it? i broke up with my bf not long ago, and i honestly couldn't feel worse if it had been him who had dumped me. We were really good friends for around a year b4 i was going w/him and now he won't even talk to me and it hurts like crazy. (there's also the inevitable guilt etc) (especially coz i have to see him everyday anyway)
to trisha: didn't keely just say that if she could get over it she would? i don't mean to rain on you, but anyway.
Tell him to shank off. If he wanted to shank and you let him, that was your own damn fault. You shouldn't have let him shank you if you didn't want it. Who's fault did you think it was stupid. You? HIm?? I would have simpathy for you if you had been, say, raped or something, but you should have thought over any kind of moving and shanking that you may be doing. I say that it is your fault out of ignorance.
thanks, anon, as if i didn't feel bad enough already. hey, at least people are being honest, i guess.....
my life feels like those Slice commercials. "Another taste of something twisted". my boyfriend just dumped me because he thinks he might kill me on accident if we continue to see each other. do you think he really feels this way or just wants me gone? [i'm new with dating]
Ok, like I have THE best story of revenge, jealousy and EX-Bastard!
Exboyfreinds??? I have 7 and at least five of them are basterds. (If only I could get over them.) Any way what is you guy's definition of rape. What if you tell your guy once to stop and he won't but the second time he does?
By Keely on Saturday, March 21, 1998 - 06:33 pm:
By Que_ on Saturday, March 21, 1998 - 11:25 pm:
The ones who worshipped you when you were going out, even said they loved you (which you in no way believed, since you only knew them for 3 weeks...), and then you break up with them and suddenly you're the bitch of the universe. I mean, they don't tell you that to your face (because they want to stay friends like you suggested) but they tell their friends you're a total bitch.
Um, I babble, sorry.... :)
Que
By Ramsey19 on Sunday, March 29, 1998 - 11:30 pm:
By Anonymous on Tuesday, March 31, 1998 - 02:36 pm:
By Anonymous on Saturday, April 4, 1998 - 05:01 pm:
Needless to say she dumped him right then and there.
And a couple weeks later he done the same thing to his next girlfriend, very dumb move in my opinion.
By Spunkie on Sunday, April 5, 1998 - 05:06 pm:
By Anonymous on Monday, April 6, 1998 - 06:07 pm:
By Marie Hioug on Thursday, April 9, 1998 - 02:41 pm:
By Keely on Thursday, April 9, 1998 - 04:01 pm:
By Kung fu grrl on Monday, May 25, 1998 - 04:22 pm:
By Kung fu grrl on Monday, May 25, 1998 - 04:22 pm:
By Kung fu grrl on Monday, May 25, 1998 - 04:22 pm:
By Kung fu grrl on Monday, May 25, 1998 - 04:22 pm:
By Becks on Tuesday, May 26, 1998 - 03:30 am:
See ya
luv Becks xxx
P.S. Don't let the b*stards get ya down!!!
By Ouchee on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 11:44 am:
By Becks on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 04:15 pm:
luv Becks xxx
By Becks on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 04:15 pm:
luv Becks xxx
By Becks on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 04:15 pm:
luv Becks xxx
By Keely on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 04:52 pm:
I must admit that one pet peeve of mine is people who tell me to get over a guy. Don't you think if i could i would? Do you think i like suffering? it's something that i find uncontrollable. Trust me that if i had the choice i would have long ago "gotten over" my ex's.
By Trish on Friday, May 29, 1998 - 10:25 pm:
Just want you to know, that it is also hard for me. YOu are not alone, Keely.
Trish
By Ifa on Saturday, May 30, 1998 - 06:36 pm:
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By Anonymous on Tuesday, June 2, 1998 - 11:28 pm:
what if your bf wants to go farther than you? and you let him? then later you regret it and don't want to do anything, then what? is it your [my] fault?
By Anonymous on Wednesday, June 3, 1998 - 07:25 pm:
By The first anonymous on Saturday, June 6, 1998 - 12:14 pm:
By Not Scared But Should Be on Saturday, June 13, 1998 - 10:43 am:
By Cyndi Leper...hehe... on Tuesday, June 16, 1998 - 12:29 am:
Okay, I was nearly 14, and this new guy, I'll call him Tony, had a crush on me. He was HOT...like ohmigod, roll-over and start chewing up the floorboards HOTTT! He asked me out! I went out with him for like, 3 months, we broke up because I wanted to lose my virginity to him, but *he* wasn't ready (The ultimate role reversal!). So cut to two years down the track, I'm *still* totally in love with Tony, I've had an on-off 10 month relationship with some other bastard Ahmed, *still* smitten with Tones. Ahmed *dumps* me on my 15th birthday! Mmm Sweetie! He'd been sleeping with my ex-friend Tanya! Glad I didn't lose my virginity to him, either!
I spot a guy at school. I'm now 16, thinking "I'll never find anyone sweeter/nicer/hotter than Tony". Taadaa!!!!!! I meet this new bloke. Name's Craig. Looks like a Jr. Keanu Reeves. I ask Craig out, Tony realises I don't love him anymore. Ahmed gets his just deserts...the entire grade turns on him for being a bastard to MOI! Tony gets jealous. To this day (2 months B4 I'm 18) Tony is sooooo jealous I'm not in *love* with him anymore (if it even WAS *love*. Lust, I reckon). He wants me back, but I will NEVER give up Craig. Craig had a bitch of an ex too.
Mmmm, always want what ya can't have, heh Tony?? hehehe...
By Marsha on Wednesday, June 24, 1998 - 04:01 pm: