i hate myself


NrrdGrrl! Discussion Forum: Lives and Confessions: i hate myself
By Anonymous on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 11:02 am:

I know i shouldn't, but i can't help it. I know i shouldn't pay attention to the media, or care so much about the way i look, but i do. i'm so miserable. i'll feel fine fora few days , then misery will strike again, i feel so frustrated. i think i'm so ugly and fat. (and i know some peopel are perfectly beautiful when they're fat, but i'm notone of them) i hate myself so much. can someone help me


By Anonymous on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 11:03 am:

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By Anonymous on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 11:52 am:

Why must u hate yerself??? We all have our hang-ups but hating yer self is wrong !!You have a build, large or small and it will be with u for the rest of yer life.Think about yer inner qualities.You probably are a really nice person!!I say probably as i dont know u.Focus on yer inner qualities.
Take care
oirio


By Fashion Queen on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 12:56 pm:

Love yourself for who you are. Everyone is special in their own individual way.


By Not the 1st anonymous on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 01:09 pm:

I know how you feel, I hate my voice, and i think i'm fat. I hate having glasses and i don't want to wear contacts. I love acting even though i hate my voice. I think i'm fat and i don't do anything about. I hate caring about clothes and hair+so on. I rather be a third grader, not caring about what i look like and not caring if i don't get strait A's. I know i'm smart. I know i have many opinions. I know that i could probally be a pianist and dancer if i worked at it. I know that i probally have a nice face(half Japanese). But i still HATE MYSELf. I care too much about my waist and stomache.


By MeG on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 02:42 pm:

Don't worry about the outside..concentrate on the inside.Think about your good qualities u have on the inside.You and everybody will only like yourself if you are a good person on the inside.
Outside doesn't matter...u just have to learn to love yourself to learn that.Ask your friends/family about all the good things about u on the inside...it will surely make u feel better!
*MeG*


By Star on Sunday, September 27, 1998 - 04:12 am:

HEY!

If there is one thing I have learned on this earth in my years here, it is this: if you are friendly and nice, and you actually care about people, you will have alot of for real friends and lots of fun! Peope that are, beautiful or ugly or fat or thin or tall or short, and bitchy, asi n not caring and being shallow and sel centered may seem to have a great life, but inside, they don't... trust me, i was one of those people for a long time, and most things that ran through my head were depressive thoughts and emotions... all I wanted was to be dead.

So cheer up, and don't worry about your body and your looks! Number one, everyone has self doubts and wants to be/look better. It's a natural human emotion so that we will strive to better ourselves! Concentrate on the being better part and see what happens! Trust me, it will help alot. Probably no one will ever be totally satisfied with their looks completely, but actually realizing that they are not what matters in life is a big part of maturity. I know you'll probably keep worrying about this for a while, but when you realize that there are way more important things to life than looking good and fitting in, you'll know that you're a lot more mature and you'll definitely be a lot happier!

Luck and wishes on realizing your potential!


Star


By Anonymous on Monday, October 26, 1998 - 10:14 pm:

I used to hate my self for many year's, and my
4 sisters alway's said that I was the ugly duckling in the family, they went as far as to
putting me down in front of all their friends,
and dump a bucket of soot over my head in school,
And now a few years latter, not letting them know
how I felt, even thought I have a complexs problem,I have over come most of them,I realise,
that I'm a very prettey girl,and now my sisters
are always asking me how I do it, to look so good, and how I manage to have a boy friend and they are left behind, it's my personality that every one like's, I have a gift and thats, that I have learned not to let people put me down, and specialy, my self,I now look in the mirror and tell my self that I like what I see,and ever since, I lost the weight, all by it self,and I
know that I'm a beautyful person inside too,look
inside of your self, and tell your self that you are beautyful, you are unique, no one els will ever be exacly like you, so wear it proudly, we are all special,


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