I have a crush on 3 boys and I don`t know what to do. None of them know, but there is the other one which I would like to tell.These feelings for the other 2 boys are getting in the way, which is making it harder for me to say anything.But, the biggest problem here is, I don`t know how he feels for me - should I embarrass myself by saying something?? Its soooo hard because, school is on Monday, and they are all in my french class!!
I don`t think you should say anything to the boy that you like yet, because from your message it sounds like you are unsure of your own feelings for him, let alone his feelings for you. Stay friends for a while and see if he gives you any signals. But, what about the other 2 boys you like? You have to think about if you really do fancy them or if it is just a silly crush.
3 boys??!!! 1 is bad enough! I reckon you should make your mind up about who you fancy the most, walk up to him confidently and ask him out. Most of the time I get sick of waiting for these cute guys to ask me out - so I do it myself! Yeah, well I`ve had rejections in the past, but now I`ve been going out with my gorgeous boyfriend for almost 4 months.And it was all because I plucked up the courage to go for it.
I can`t even tell my best friend. Every time I tell her that I fancy someone, she does her best to try and get him for herself. This has happened in the past.She flirted with the guy which I had liked for months, which resulted in them going out together! Only for a couple of days, but it really hurt me.
You grrls out there are the only people who I can express my feelings too. I really need some sort of advice, so please help and post me a message soon!
By Lolli Pop on Sunday, May 31, 1998 - 02:06 pm:
My advice is think carefully before choosing who you do want to tell. Don`t tell all three, that would get very confusing!! Also, you need to tell your friend how you feel about what she has done. Tell her how much she hurt you and try and sort things out.If she really is your best friend, she will stop going after the boys you fancy.Hopefully, she will understand.
Good Luck!
By DiZzYnEsS on Tuesday, June 2, 1998 - 12:02 pm:
Boys who turn you down don`t deserve you,and are not worth the worry. I bet after guys say no, they kick themselves later!
Stop worrying about your situation,sort yourself out and do something about it :-)