Hi, I have had this madd crush on this one guy for 4 years. It was like love at first site. I saw him the first time when I was 11, and that year, I remember whenever I saw him I literally had to bite my tongue or press it against my teeth so that I wouldn't smile and make an ass of myself. Even then, I remember I couldn't control half of my face and the left side of my mouth curved into a smile. I don't think I had ever had an involuntary smile before!!! But after that it was always the same.....it was an infatuation I suppose....but it kept going on. I finally got over it once and for all this year...because I don't have any classes with him at all....so I never see him. I don't think about him much....
Mmmm.... crushes.... sweet misery. I don't know why they happen, probably something with chemicals or hormones or something crazy like that. I can tell you about a few of mine, though.
if I had a logical answer as to why we have crushes you can bet I wouldnt have the ones I have!!!
Do you ever get crushes on guys who have, like,a connection with each other. Its really weird but all the boys I have had crushes on (3) their names were next to mine on the register. Am I the only one like this?
What do you mean "on the register"? What register?
How do you know when a guy likes you??? Cuz there is this one fine guy that I have my eyes set on, and he acts as if he likes me, but I am like totally clueless in this situation. If you know post a message and I'll check. Thanks. =)
Well,if he likes you he might be
I have a crush on my history teacher. Which kinda sucks because he's married and twice as old as I am. But he's so attractive and intelligent and sweet and... okay, you get the idea. On the plus side though, I get good grades in his class because I listen to everything he says!
Laurel,
Laurel: that licks! but I think crushes can be enjoyable, it's a nice feeling, isn't it? It doesn't sound like you're actually planning on going for it, so I don't have to tell you not to do that. I've never had a crush on a teacher (they're teachers! come on!), but I know what a crush feels like, I've had plenty but for some reason I just don't get them anymore. Anyone know why? I haven't had one in almost 2 years. Hmm...
Oirio: I think you misunderstood me. I said I had a crush on him. I didn't say that I was planning to do anything about it. I know that would be wrong. I'm not stupid. I like to talk to him in class but I would never act inappropriate.
Well, I'm mad in love with Jakob Dylan....I just adore him....I know it sounds crazy...I'll NEVER get him....he's married and has 2 kids....but all the guys I know are complete assholes and he's just so sweet and witty and just incredibly angelic looking...I mean, gosh, I've never been obsessed like this. I've been crazy about him for over a year. He's stuck on my brain. Oh well, I did meet him **smiles** which was my big dream come true. He held my hand....he must be an angel....no guy that perfect exists...
Joanna, I'd be careful, he doesn't sound like a great guy, and if a complete stranger can tell you that then I guess you must know yourself. Even if this guy seems like the nicest person in the world, you still have these doubts. Think of all the other great offers you may be passing by. I understand how you feel, i am 15 and was totally in love with a guy like this. Trust me, it is not worth it.
Lanya: Cool, I kinda like Jakob Dylan too. And I know what it is like to have a crush on someone famous. I won't say who I like though... *blush*
I have fancied this boy for like two years now, sometimes i have fancied him more than others but I'm only human. Anyway he will flirt with me and we are good friends, so why won't he go out with me it's so annoying all my friends say we make a really nice couple.....AAHHHH!
I know what it is like to fancy someone who is not "THAT" gorgeous.... sometimes there is just that chemistry! Like this guy I fancied.... He had these unbelievable lips.... wow.... once, we bumped into each other in the school corridor and we just stood there staring at each other for like ages... you know, in a really sexy, I wanna rip your clothes off sort of way. Well, we got something going but now its over... but those LIPS!
Anonanon, you say he won't go out with you. Have you asked?
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE somebody help!
Well, you could always just put aside the factor of gossip.Have you made a move yet?
i have a crush too. ok here is the story. i really like this guy and all of my friends say he will probally go out w/ me ,but the problem is he is my ex's best friend , when i say friend i mean best best best friend, they r really close and i don't think he would go out w/ me for that reason.
can somebody please help me, the problem above!!!!!
anonymous, i'm sorry to say, but if this guy is going out with someone else *and* is your ex's best best best friend and probably wouldn't go out with you, i really really doubt that all of a sudden he's going to break up with his girlfriend and ask you out. i suggest you enjoy the crush for a while, but move on.
shampoo everybody knows that he just had to have agirlfriend over the summer,he asked her out the last day of school at my best friends going away party(cause she's moving to GA) and my ex boyfriend asked her out. now she was moving away!!! they do things with each other useally because like i said they are best best friends well i don't know but thanks for your opinion
hey anon, i tried to make a move on the last day of term but it was impossible to talk to him with all his friends there.
anon, why did he 'just have to have a girlfriend over the summer'
I need advice, I guess I'm different. :) Anyway, please help me!
hey Que,
I think the perfect thing to do in a situation like this is to plant a small dime sized 14 mag bomb in his locker, wait, and then bang,it explods and there goes your problem into a million little peices!
I totally dig this one guy Ryan. i really really really really really really really really really (u get the point) like him, and he knows it, and i'm starting to think he might like me too, the only thing is, i'm not sure, and i wanna ask him out, but when it comes to guys, im really afraid of rejection, and will only ask them out when i'm 100% positive they'll say yes. tha'ts how it's been with all the other guys i've been with. i don't know wheteher to go for it or not, and also how do i ask him, cuz i'm really shy around him, unlike with all the other guys at school.........aww jeeze........just help me!!! :) thanx 4 wasting your time reading this!!! :)
I suppose in a way I have a crush on Lee Brennan from 911 but that's more of an obsession really and I know we'll be together eventually!
This guy Tim and I are mutual crushes and we both know it but we're not sure what to do about it. First, we're thirteen, with strict parents. Second, all our friends at school are obnoxious and I don't think I could stand up to that kind of teasing. You don't even KNOW. So the only place we can talk is online and his parents won't let him stay on late while mine won't let me on early so it's about 1/2 hour a day. this licks. What am I going to do? He is so wonderful!
And then today, and yesterday, I started seeing him in the halls....and it's awful....it's torture.
It's like some sort of sweet torture. I see him and I get all nervous, and I swear I blush sooo much.....and then as soon as he's out of earshot, I groan and shreik, "why?!?! Why can't I just NOT see him, and then I'll never want him anymore?? Why must he do this to me?!!"
I don't know, I think that probably a lot of you feel similarly about some one guy....you just don't know *what * it is about him!!!
Anyone have a logical, scientific explanation for *crushing* on a guy? I mean, it's just *one* guy...not guys with brown hair or those guys with great bodies....but this ONE GUY. I mean, to tell the truth he's not all that *hot* but there's just something about *him* only that drives me *nuts*. Help me! I wanna know what's going on! My hormones are driving me crazy! I need control over this thing!!!! HELP!!!
(by the way, other than around him, I am *completely* comfortable wiht guys.)
By Shampoo on Monday, May 11, 1998 - 07:13 pm:
Okay, so a few years ago, to put it bluntly, I was a geek. I mean, *really* a geek, not just saying that. I wasn't exactly gorgeous, either. My hair was all frizzy and i didn't wear any make up, but I did wear these ugly baggy shirts!!! I blame it on my self esteem. It was pretty low. So anywayz, being as pathetic as I am I had a lot of crushes. Not that you're pathetic to have a crush, cuz I still get em. Just that I would always delusion myself and everything. Now I don't have any, but uh... guys actually crush on me, now... it feels so great!
My most favourite crush was in grade 7, there was this guy... oh my God, he was the hottest guy in the school. He knew it too, that was his problem. But oh my god, he had these eyes that would change colour according to his mood!! And his voice was so sexy because he had come from yugoslavia. One day he asked me for lead for his pencil, and his voice was just *so* sexy that I automatically started crushing on him. The highlights of my life were the pencil thing, and once we went on this feild trip and i got this dinosaur water squirty thing, and i asked to see and his hand touched mine when i gave it to him... it was heaven!!
But, he was an egotistical jerk. He didn't dance with me at the graduation. I thought I was over him during spring break, but when I found out that he moved, I wanted to cry.
Thinking about him now, though... if I could see him again and show him how different I am... but i barely remember what he looks like, just that he was HOT!!! his skin was this sexy bronze colour, and for a grade 7, he was pretty buff. I liked him *so* much!!!
By Eliste on Monday, May 11, 1998 - 07:17 pm:
By Ddg on Tuesday, May 12, 1998 - 03:36 pm:
By Que_ on Tuesday, May 12, 1998 - 08:18 pm:
But as far as a "connection" goes, I do get these weird feelings for some guys (um, only 2 guys at my school)....it's some sort of a connection. Like, I feel like we must have known eachother in a past life or something. My sister says that it's just that we understand eachother's personalities or something. But even so, I wish I could just get into a relationship with one of the boys i have a connection wiht instead of wasting my time on my crush who I probably don't have a chance with!!!! It's so frustrating!!!
So nobody knows why we crush so hard?
By Crush Confused on Thursday, May 28, 1998 - 08:10 pm:
By Oirio on Wednesday, June 24, 1998 - 01:11 pm:
a)Forever glancing in your direction
b)Smiles at you alot!!
c)Flirts subtly with you
d)seems to be at all the same parties/disco's as you
e)does'nt ignore you
f)generally he would be real nice
g)always knows the latest about you,who you were with last,who you snogged etc.
hopefully i helped!
oirio
By Laurel on Wednesday, June 24, 1998 - 08:19 pm:
By Oirio on Thursday, June 25, 1998 - 03:09 pm:
Its common for people to have crushes!On the down side,he is married happily and its against the law for him to touch you (well it is here).Its great you get good grades , keep it up,but think logically-Do you honestly think that he would ever go near you???He is a teacher , any relation-ship with him is strictly professional.well,on his behalf it would be anyway .Do you think he would give up his marraige and home because you have a crush on him ??Sorry me dear, i think not !!Well if youre serious tell him how you feel,ONLY IF YOU KNOW HE POSSESSES FEELINGS FOR YOU.
_ Oirio .
Think carefully
By Shampoo on Friday, June 26, 1998 - 12:25 am:
-shampoo
By Laurel on Saturday, June 27, 1998 - 03:13 pm:
Another thing: Even if I didn't think he was good looking, I would probably love going to his class anyway. He can actually make history interesting. That is hard!
By Joanna on Wednesday, July 1, 1998 - 05:24 am:
Hi,
I'm Joanna and I'm 14. Ok, I've got this problem, dilema sort of
thing............here goes:
My friend Terri went out with this guy called Leon and then he dumped
her after 3 weeks because he was two-timing her. I got quite friendly
with him which annoyed Terri but now I really fancy him. The problem is,
my best friend Gemma just told me that she loved him!! Then last week
Leon asked me if I'd pull him but I HAD to say no coz Gemma AND Terri
would have fallen out with me!! What should I do: I still really like
him.
PLEASE HELP
~Joanna~
By Lanya on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 02:57 am:
By Sally on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 09:37 am:
My new problem is this guy who is so incredibly shy. We are both on different ends of the popularity scale (I am not popular) if we went out then we would be constantly harrassed by the people around us. But I think he is worth it. Any advice?
By Laurel on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 10:30 am:
By Anonanon on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 12:49 pm:
By LipLover) on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 07:29 pm:
By Anonymous on Saturday, July 18, 1998 - 11:40 pm:
By Undecided15 on Wednesday, July 22, 1998 - 02:14 pm:
Until recently boys haven't really noticed me but now suddenly I can choose between two. Guy 1 is incredibly shy and would never ask a girl out. But I think he likes me. I do want to go out with him but when he is with his mates he does the typical male thing and acts stupid. (sorry to guys who don't do that!)
Guy 2 is a close friend and I am attracted to him. He is funny, sweet, kind, but he is also in the year below at school (6months younger).I could say that I am not AS attracted to him as guy1. Going out with either one of them could cause serious gossip amongst his friends and mine.
So what do I do. HELP!
By Anonymous on Tuesday, August 4, 1998 - 07:12 pm:
By Anonymous on Sunday, August 9, 1998 - 05:39 pm:
also at the moment he is going out w/ someone which personally i don't think will last 'cause he asked her out the last day of school
somebody post a message and help me PLEASE!!!
By Anonymous on Friday, August 21, 1998 - 09:48 pm:
By Shampoo on Saturday, August 22, 1998 - 04:43 am:
By Anonymous on Monday, August 24, 1998 - 05:20 pm:
and anyway i heard she was dumping him anyway
but oh well we will c
i'll keep u posted
By Decided15 on Thursday, August 27, 1998 - 02:02 pm:
you are right- shove the gossip. by the way i am going for guy1. but its been six weeks over the summer and when we go back i am gonna do it. wow for the first time in my life i am actually looking forward to getting back to school!
do you reckon i stand a chance? he barely talks to me but he follows me to the same part of the room A LOT and expects me to strike up a conversation.
oh he is so shy! doesnt look like he would make the first move.
please help and get postin'!
By Decided15 on Thursday, August 27, 1998 - 02:09 pm:
and hey, he's gone and asked HIS exes best friend out. why dont you do the same?
do you know him well? why not go out as a group of friends or just take shampoo's good advice and move on.
i think deep down, you know what you WANT to do and what you SHOULD do. you have to make that decision. its never easy.
By Anonymous on Tuesday, September 1, 1998 - 05:20 pm:
There's this guy I talk to (well, try to talk to). He said he'd meet me to talk on Monday. Well, it's Tuesday, and he hasn't had a chance. I wanna talk to him, plus I need to appologize to him for being a jerk the other day. I want to give him a note since I never get to talk to him, but I'm afraid he'll think it's a love note! Anyone have any clue what I should do? Please e-mail me at puckgurl@aol.com!
By Anonymous on Thursday, September 17, 1998 - 04:14 pm:
i know exactly how you feel
Decided15, just GO for it(havent you seen the nike adverts?)
Love H
By Anonymous on Saturday, October 3, 1998 - 11:23 pm:
By Ryan Lover on Friday, October 9, 1998 - 06:35 pm:
Laterz.
ChRiStInA
By Chelsi on Sunday, October 18, 1998 - 02:06 pm:
Chelsi
By Xym on Wednesday, October 28, 1998 - 01:37 am: