I need advice!! :(


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By Rachel on Friday, August 21, 1998 - 08:05 pm:

ok, i know i digged my own grave in this one and i will eternally hate myself for it...but i had a crush on this boy for the first week of school....i thought he looked adorable and sweet, but it turns out he really wasn't what i had in mind...he is sweet and adorable, but he's kind of too immature for my liking....i'm too picky..i know that...but i feel like a pedophile for doing this...it's too late....we're already going out and he's overboard obsessed with me :( any girls out there have any advice for me?


By KIM1015 on Friday, August 21, 1998 - 09:44 pm:

just break it to him lightly tell him "I had a great time but i think is was better when we were still friends. i think he will understand or maybe not i don't know the kid but hopefully you will know how to break it to him the right way

GOOD LUCK

-KIM


By Aphrodite on Saturday, August 22, 1998 - 08:12 am:

I feel really weird 'cos I'm going out with a guy who's a year younger than me, when I'm used to being with people a year or two older. I think he's cute and everything but I'm not sure if I actually fancy him. When I first met him, I couldn't beleive he was that much younger 'cos he seems pretty mature so far... I don't know whether to call it all off or what.


By KIM1015 on Sunday, August 23, 1998 - 07:03 pm:

don't call it off if you like him u have to have a GOOd reason

KIM


By Soph on Tuesday, August 25, 1998 - 12:43 pm:

Just tell him that you want to be friends. Nothing's worse than being in a relationship with someone who you are going off. If you want, the next time he does something to REALLY annoy you, start up a major row, and you can use that excuse to break up.

Think yourself lucky, at least you didn't fancy a boy for 2 YEARS, only to have your dream come true and descover he's not as great as I thought he was. I have empathy for you....:)

Get to know people better before you ask them out - It's allways better to become friends and let things just happen!

Hope that helps you, sorry if it doesn't. Keep us posted!

Luv Soph :)


By Rhiannon on Sunday, September 6, 1998 - 02:52 pm:

Dont ask me I've never even had a boyfriend!!!!!


By Rachel on Wednesday, September 23, 1998 - 09:02 pm:

ok, i broke up with him last friday and he went around and asked EVERY girl out until a 7th grader said yes and now he stares at me even when he's with her...creepy....he told lies when we weere gonig out about how i said i wanted flowers instead of a mum and i never said anything about flowers....that's a pretty lame thing to lie about...but i don't really care, it couldv'e been worse...


By Morticia on Sunday, October 25, 1998 - 03:06 am:

I went out with a guy that was twelve, Im fourteen. Even that he called it off in not such a friendly way I dont regret anything. I have to say he was more mature than all my other exes. I lost my virginity with him and he was really cool about that. I got made fun of cause he was like two inches shorter than me, but I did not care. I prefer to go for the younger type cause the 14-18 year old guys are all playboys looking for sex.


By Morticia on Sunday, October 25, 1998 - 03:08 am:

Rachel, thats exactly what the guy I went out with did. I guess you have too be prepared for that, because they are immature in the case of showing their feelings.


By Atarigrrl on Friday, October 30, 1998 - 04:02 pm:

I crushed on a guy for a year then asked him out, he said yes and once we were dating I found out he wasn't really ready for a relationship. And this was in 12th grade, but everyone grows emotionally at a different rate. I still respect him and think he's a great person, but he just didn't seem to be "into" the relationship at the time.


By Soph on Saturday, November 7, 1998 - 11:58 am:

In the summer, I went out with this boy, he told me he loved me etc etc. Now he's back at school with all his friends (who hate me), he ignores me and joins in with all the piss taking. And the other day I was helping him on a maths question, and he said 'don't worry, I love you'. He didn;t say it piss-takingly, but, I mean, how bad can that make me feel?!? I don't know if he meant it or not, but after saying it before, then abanoning me, how can I trust him?!?

Help! Luv Sophie


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