Confession about HIS Kissing


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By Miss Kiss Tell on Monday, October 5, 1998 - 03:57 pm:

I have just started going out with this really great guy who I have fancied for absolutely ages. I was so supprised and happy when he asked me out..............then we had a brilliant date............and we kissed. Well, the kiss wasn't exactly great, he stuck his toungue right down my throat and I felt like I couldn't breathe. This probably sounds really stupid and selfish but I really don't like his kissing technique, and I'm not looking forward to kissing him again. What should I do, tell him?? I don't want to embarrass him.........has anyone else had this problem?
I need some advice - Help!
J


By Anonymous on Monday, October 5, 1998 - 05:03 pm:

Well,how shame ful!!!! ah no only messing.I know how that feels i was with this lad before and it was horrible...he bit me nearly cholked me with his slimy and stinking breath as well as breathing down me neck / throat...!!!!


By Anonymous on Monday, October 5, 1998 - 05:06 pm:

I guess you are just gonna have to deal with it 'cos - as they say - "practice makes perfect!"


By Keely on Tuesday, October 6, 1998 - 09:40 pm:

My first boyfriend was the worst for drooling or slobering while kissing.... but he got better w/practise. My boyfriend now complains about how i kiss funny because my tongue isn;t in constant motion. (Okay I get bored of kissing for like five minutes and my mind starts to wander okay?)
Anyway I think that since a kiss is supposed to be something enjoyable for both of you then something must be wrong if one person is dreading it.
XX
Keely


By Miss Kiss and Tell on Friday, October 9, 1998 - 04:23 pm:

Thanx for the advice Anon and Keely J
So, I guess my boyfriend and I are gonna have to practice a bit more........hey, sounds good to me!


By Paul Temple on Sunday, October 11, 1998 - 09:54 pm:

Im a guy and im kinda nervous about these things,
like i was with this girl at her house and we
were flirting and cudling and such, and well
i think she got upset cuz i didnt kiss her, i
dont really understand this, i mean, was it *MY*
obligation to kiss *HER* anyway? besides, im not really a physical person and i get really nervous when things like this happen and i dont know what to do, id kiss her but well, im a geek so i dont really spend much time focussing on grrls...
help me!

All Apologies,
Paul


By Angelface on Tuesday, October 13, 1998 - 06:02 pm:

Paul,

All I can say is "JUST GO FOR IT!"

There is no point in worrying about things as it will all come naturally. You could also explain this to the girl - I am sure she will understand and you can take it at your own pace from there. I mean, I wish more guys were honest about these things with me, rather than trying to keep up the "macho" image.

Hope I help!


By STAR on Wednesday, October 14, 1998 - 12:02 pm:

Hey Paul
You sound like a nice guy.Talk to your girlfriend.Tell her your shy and then snog her bloomin' face off! Ah no !If you want to take thing slow do.


By Niki on Wednesday, October 14, 1998 - 08:34 pm:

I've had HORRID kissers in the past...lets call one of them Bruce. Bruce was a babe. And you'd think good kissing would come with the package....how wrong I was!
It was like being run down by a bull-dozer. He smushed his mouth as far into mine as he could, pressing his teeth against my lip, his tongue was as strong as Arnie Shwarzneger. It darted in and out, it shook all about, he slobbered, he sucked. I thought I was kissing a St Bernard!
Lucky for me, Bruce and I didn;t last. Sure, he was a babe, but I hope he's found someone elso to give ulcers to!
My current boy is a sweetie. Just like Paul, he was a nervous thing! He'd never kissed before! So, one night, we got together and I just kissed him softly, and he kissed me back, just as soft! It was bliss! Now, he'll kiss me without hesitation...and one day, you'll be the same, Paul!!!!!
Good Luck, mmmmwaaah!


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