I am like totally confused. cuz there is this guy that I have liked ever since I could remember. Everytime I see him he seems to flirt with me. one time I cought him starring at me. When I looked back at him, he turned away. What I really want to know is, how do know when guys like you????
Confused,
Ahhh boys huh? You can`t live with em, but you certainly can`t live without em!
The sad part is, it doesn't get any easier when you get older. I'm 33 now and I still can't figure men out.
Me neither, don't worry about it. Think of it this way: if we could figure them out, we'd get bored with them.
I've got LOADS of confidence but only for the things like singing and acting and stuff. Yet, when it comes to guys I am a nervous wreck. I've been told I'm pretty but I dont have a boyfriend. When I am with that "certain" guy everything goes wrong. After a day with a guy I go off him... I am soooo picky. I am the female equivalent to CHANDLER BING! All I want is to find that boy who will love me for ME... There are guys who like me... but not for what is in the inside... I see my friends with guys and get soooo jealous... Is there anything wrong with wanting to be loved?
anon16, it's like you read my mind!
anon16, it's like you read my mind!
Read it twice did she, Shampoo?! :)
Wow,i reakon if ya like go for it !!!!!What could go wrong ??At the worst, he could say no to you laugh in your face,then you notice every cool person in the building laughin' at ya !!You may even drop a contact lense and have to get on yer knees and rummage aroyund swiftly,
AA!! "aint no thang?" !!!!!!!!! THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'M WORRIED ABOUT!!
I've got to side with Shampoo on this, take it from someone who knows, asking people out and getting rejected sucks like hell. But Usually you can tell what the answer will be before you ask, so if it feels right, go for it.
I've just read this book called boys are they really aliens???? it's all about the way that they have to look good in front of their mates but how they do have a soft side if the guy u like teases u in a friendly way it usually means he's got a crush on u for more information i sujjest u read the book cause it gives u a better understanding of the other sex it's avaliable at most book shops in the teen section sorry i can't remember the author.
Yeah, To sum it up, that sounds about right. we guys, kind of like you girls having to always look your best, we have to try to look cool around our guy friends. Just one of those things, and the thing about casualy teasing is pretty much true too. A guy usually teases a girl a bit to see if she likes him, and to see if she has a sense of humor, and that humor thing is major, a girls no fun if she can't laugh at something.
i want to slap every single male on the planet sometimes!!
U all sound like u know what your talking about. My problem is that I am so ugly no guy would eva really like me. I am 14 and weigh 11 stone. My nose is, like, huge. I know people say hey! Your looks dont matter but will guys really eva like me? I am trying not to care bout how i look but its hard.
what's 11 stone?????????
The first problem there is that you think you are ugly, and if you say that enough, it will become true. Have you ever asked a guy out? What did he say? If you haven't, then how do you know that no guy would ever go out with you? Trust me from experiance, no guy will ever wanna go out with you if you have low self esteem, cuz just about every guy out there wants a girl that feels good about them self. I'm not saying to dress like a slut and show off and everything, i'm just saying that if you want a guy to like you, the way you carry yourself really matters, not only to the guy, but it should matter to you. I hope this helped! :)
i never have a problem with guys liking me. Every guy at my school would go out with me in a flash. I am the hottest thing in the world, and i feel sorry for all you fat losers in the world
oh is that right Miss Universe? you feel sorry for the rest of the people who aren't among the social elite, and have to get up every morning two hours earlier than everybody else to try and pretty themselves up and cover up all those blemishes, who have to worry about which fasion is coming in, and which is leaving, who is going out with which guy, who is going to stab you in the back next, and who are you going to stab, who you have to sleep with to stay in the group, who you have to keep on a leash, who's throwing a party, and what do you have to wear to it, and whose I.Q. is smaller than your cup size. Now, look at the flip side, the average person who can get out of bed at a normal time, who doesn't have to watch their back at every turn, who doesn't have to be perfect all the time, who can stay home every once in awhile and not worry about what other people will think. Take a good look at both sides of the fence, and make a choice, because if you ask me, maybe you shouldn't feel sorry for the rest of the human race, maybe they should feel sorry for you.
*snicker* "who's iq is smaller then your cup size" that was really, really funny.
It goes the same way for being a guy. I'm not the greatest looking guy with a round face and difficulty talking to women, even at 30. And to tell you the truth, I've been bombarded with the fashion/advertizing image of what a girl is supposed to look like (blond, skinny, pushed up breasts, perfect teeth, etc.) as well as the men they're with (same description with defined muscles instead of breasts) that I'm sick of it. There is also the way you are supposed to be to be attractive; out going, macho, succesful.
sadly enough, that is what this world has turned into, if you don't have the perfect body and are incredibly successful, noone wants you. I'm not trying to make a sterotype here, god knows there are a few people out there, I try myself, but I don't claim to be perfect. Then again, look at shampoo, she doesn't have the perfect bod, but I'm engaged to her! well, anyway, I'm rambling now. but the world really isn't in shape, and if you ask me, the reason for all of these sterotypes, is all those magazines, and comercials with all these beautiful people, normal people have no place there.
well, in my opinion, i could give a shit what people think about me, and as far as girls, right
PLEASE don't flaunt your stupidity and ignorance here.
I TOTALLY AGREE ANONYMOUS
I TOTALLY AGREE ANONYMOUS
I TOTALLY AGREE ANONYMOUS
I TOTALLY AGREE ANONYMOUS
any ***GUYS*** out there??
Yeah I want an answer to that question too!
It can mean anything from "wow she's nice" to "see the legs on that" to "top clothes" to "what _is_ she wearing" to "..." I figure you get the idea. Guys have _just_ as much difficulty figuring out what it means when a girl stares at them (as in from "hmm, he's nice" to "oh no, look at _that_", etc). It all depends on how they're staring, what their expression is and what their body language says. If somebody keeps looking at you, especially if they keep trying to pretend they're not (the usual look but turn away when you see them thing), I think you've got an indication they're interested. But then again, it all depends so much on who you/they are with, where you are, whether you know anyone that knows them, etc. that it's difficult to generalise. If I was at a party and kept looking at some girl, it'd be because I was interested in them, and I'd try and find some way of talking to them, probably by asking someone who knew them, whoever's party it was, etc. It _does_ get easier the more, err, 'practice' you get... :)
You people need to get a clue, If a guy is staring at you, it's either because you're a freak or he wants to screw you. I'm really sure he can tell what an awesome personality you have because of your looks (sarcastic remark if any you idiots didn't catch it).
To find out if a guy likes you, look for a bulge in the front of his pants. If it gets bigger when you talk to him, he likes you. Then put your hand on it.
this is so cute. this guy just told me that he's had a crush on me for four years. and he expects me to think he's all pathetic now but i DON'T i just think it's really adorable. and i like him back too. hooray for happiness. of course, my best friend hates me...but i have 2 guys chasing me-major ego boost.
Oh-I've been wondering this forever. People are constantly yelling at me, "Yo, chick, my friend likes you." Now is this because they think I'm hot or hideous? I'm inclined to think hideous, but one guy chased me down the street on his bike trying to get my phone number. He was two yrs. younger than me. How pathetic. So why is it?
If its alot of different people that aren't like all part of the same group its probbaly cause they think your hot.
I had this relationship with this boy over the summer (I've fancied him for ages, and the same with him), except he didn't actually ask me out, but we went out to the cinema etc. But now he's ignoring me at school, and being really sarcastic when I try to talk to him. I found out that he definately used to fancy me, but I dunno about now - he's being really nasty... well, not that nasty - It's probably just me overeacting and being awful to him.
Soph, consider how he is being sarcastic. If he's being rude or mocking you, give up on him because that wouldn't indicate that he respects you. On the other hand, he might be going through something now that has resulted in tense feelings and a change in personality. You might want to talk to him on the phone for a while before asking him out.
By Keridwyn on Friday, May 29, 1998 - 12:01 pm:
Each guy gives a different sign. There is no magical formula to know this. Go up to the guy and let him know what you want (ask him to go to the movies). Just do it. Doesn't kill anyone. I have asked guys out in the past. Sure, some say no, but it's their loss. *grin*
Just do it. You can't regret it, whatever his answer is.
Good luck,
Keri
By In Love on Friday, May 29, 1998 - 01:27 pm:
If I knew the answer to your question, I would be a very happy girl!
Keri: I wish I had your confidence!
By Ebony on Friday, May 29, 1998 - 04:23 pm:
By Shampoo on Sunday, May 31, 1998 - 03:46 am:
By Anonymous16 on Monday, June 1, 1998 - 02:54 pm:
Oh... the joys of being a teenager. I thought these were supposed to be the best days of your life?
By Shampoo on Monday, June 1, 1998 - 07:25 pm:
By Shampoo on Monday, June 1, 1998 - 07:27 pm:
By LALA on Monday, June 8, 1998 - 02:50 pm:
By Oirio on Thursday, June 25, 1998 - 03:19 pm:
Aint no thang !!!
_ Oirio
By Shampoo on Friday, June 26, 1998 - 12:30 am:
By Puck on Monday, August 3, 1998 - 05:51 pm:
By Emz on Wednesday, August 5, 1998 - 04:34 pm:
See ya laters Emz
By Ranma on Wednesday, August 12, 1998 - 08:01 pm:
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By Anonymous on Monday, August 17, 1998 - 11:02 am:
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By Ranma on Monday, August 17, 1998 - 10:04 pm:
By Shampoo on Wednesday, August 19, 1998 - 07:02 pm:
anonymous: if you can't love yourself then it makes it really hard for someone to love you. when a person has a really nice personality they become a lot more attractive. it also works the other way, too. check out miss universe over there, if i was to see a picture of her i would think she was the ugliest thing because after having a glimpse of her personality, i think she is a total snob and all of a sudden, instead of focusing on that bright smile of hers, i can't stop staring at that greasy mess she calls "hair". (i have no clue who she is i'm just using examples here). i'm no "miss universe" either, but i like myself and i like my looks, and when you feel that you're a total babe, it shines through. plus, not all guys would go out with a girl because of her looks. would you go out with a guy who maybe wasn't a calvin klein model but liked himself and had a great personality? i'm sure you would. same goes for guys.
By Gilmoure on Sunday, August 23, 1998 - 05:53 pm:
I'm not any of that (except for the muscles-working out). I'm shy, geeky, and not too concerned with making a lot of money or driving a flashy car. I like jeans and t-shirts, a pint down at the pub with folk/trad music playing and hanging out with my friends. Of course, my friends are all married and I'm always the odd one out.
What can I say, most women who go out with me say I'm a great guy, best friedn they ever had but I'm not exciting or whatever. It's that nice guy syndrome. Oh well, enough venting. See it's like that no matter who you are (unless you're in a magazine).
G
By Ranma on Sunday, August 23, 1998 - 06:17 pm:
By Anonymous on Sunday, October 11, 1998 - 09:37 pm:
now they are the last thing on my list because lately i have come to the conclusion that they
are all just being teases.
And i dont really care what anyone thinks abou tthe way i dress, or how i act or who my friends are, and what i dont understand is why people
are so clique like, and most of the girls of
high social status at my school are sluts anyway.
F*CK 'EM ALL!! <not literally>
By Anonymous on Wednesday, October 14, 1998 - 02:29 pm:
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By WOnDeRiNg on Friday, October 16, 1998 - 07:05 pm:
well, what i want to know is when u stare at a girl what does that mean?Does that mean that you guys like her or what???
By Angel on Friday, October 16, 1998 - 07:36 pm:
By Mr X on Monday, October 19, 1998 - 08:51 am:
By Anonymous on Tuesday, October 20, 1998 - 04:26 pm:
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By MeG on Friday, October 23, 1998 - 05:36 pm:
*MeG*
By Soph on Saturday, October 24, 1998 - 10:35 am:
Anyway. It's half term now, and I'm wondering whether I should phone him and ask him out (It was always him who asked me out places). I dunno if he still likes me, and I dont wanna lose my pride trying to find out.
Please help - Luv Soph
P.S. Go Ranma - girls like Miss Universe always have something to hide.....
By Anonymous on Thursday, October 29, 1998 - 11:40 pm: