Bitches in school


NrrdGrrl! Discussion Forum: Vent: Bitches in school
By Erin on Tuesday, September 1, 1998 - 12:26 pm:

Hi Everyone
Don't u just hate bitches in school that put u down and make u feel bad. They're just so insecure! who feels the same way?


By I am me on Wednesday, September 2, 1998 - 12:44 pm:

Erin...are you erin waterfield?


By Erin on Wednesday, September 2, 1998 - 02:58 pm:

no I/m erin tommy


By Dani on Thursday, September 3, 1998 - 04:48 pm:

i hate that in my school there is a "popular" crowd who thinks that they are better thatn every1 else.


By Erin on Friday, September 4, 1998 - 12:00 pm:

God I know but yhey're nice


By Soph on Saturday, September 5, 1998 - 10:23 am:

There's no such thing as being popular really. Even 'popular' people have others that hate them.

You can be a low profile, average person, who is the same as everyone else, and is never bitched about OR you can be someone who is a bit
different, prettier,with lots going for them and have few pathetic, jealous, ugly, dossers, who have nothing better to do thatn slag you off!!"

I'd rather be one of the second lot.

Luv Sophie

P.S. Don't worry about the bitches - inside they're really insucure and have to be like everyone else.


By Erin on Saturday, September 5, 1998 - 01:55 pm:

Thanks soph , I know


By Sparkle on Thursday, September 17, 1998 - 05:27 pm:

Well, here's my story....

This week in school has been really, really bad. My best friend and I were told that nobody liked us (which I have now found out is untrue!) and also that I look down on people. I don't understand this....

Now I've found out that the only reason I deserved this is because these girls were jealous of me.... That's what causes most cat fights - jealousy. One girl doesn't like me because her boyfriend pays me more attention that he does her (which I dont even respond to!) and the other is because I am prettier that her. I can't help the way that I was born.

You see, I went from being the little girl in 1st year who was shy and plain to being popular with the boys. I'm not even interested in these boys - thats what really get's to me. :-( IT HURTS.

They have totally mistaken the fact that I look down on them.... What it really is, is that one day I decided to go to school and said "Fuck them, I don't give a shit what they think of me!"

Anyway, I'll get to the point.... Now EVERYONE has realised that these to girls are very cold hearted and cruel... I'm a happy, un-nasty person and they can't handle that.... so... HA!

I'm glad that I got that off of my chest.

Also, now I do look down on them as I have realised that they are nasty, insecure, manipulitive, bitchy little girls.


By Sparkles on Thursday, September 17, 1998 - 05:30 pm:

My mum says I shouldn't think negative thoughts about people 'cos then I'll think negative thoughts about myself.

I'm sorry guys, I'm only human and they do deserve it!


By Shampoo on Friday, September 18, 1998 - 12:54 am:

but bitches are girls too, right? i mean, somewhere out there is a girl who thinks that *you're* one of the bitches. maybe it's the same girl who you hate.

come on, everyone has been mean one time in their life to someone else. like you said, these girls are jealous, dont have high self esteem, blah blah blah. would it really be fair to write them off as "bitches"? i doubt that there's a lot of girls out there who walk into school and say "what i want in life is for all the girls to hate me".

sparkles, the way you talk about these girls, it doesn't sound like you think very highly of them. why would these girls want to be nice to you when they know that you hate them? it doesn't sound to me like you're making any attempt at all, just writing them off using not very nice words to describe them. no doubt, they sense that. it's amazing what a little niceness can do. i wouldn't be surprised if one of those "bitches" complains how mean you are to them, and is saying the exact same thing, that you "deserve" it. nobody deserves being treated mean. definately, they don't deserve being treated mean by you because you think they're mean to you. try to see it from their perspective.


By Shampoo on Friday, September 18, 1998 - 12:55 am:

like you said to rationalize what you called those girls, "i'm only human". so are they.


By Sunshine on Friday, September 18, 1998 - 06:07 pm:

There is only a few bitches in our school.....when i say a bitch i'm not talkin about somebody i just don't like its more like somebody i really can't stand somebody i hate...that there is no positive things about them.I'm not goin go around sayin people are bitches just cause i don't like them...it would be more than that. Like there is this girl that is a bitch....she is a slut that has had sex with how many guys and brags about it...and that calls everyone else bitches,sluts,u name it for no reason at all....when they aren't even close to one.And she harrasses all these people she picks these people and that finds all the negative points of people about people....harassin them about it.And has made it pretty clear that everyone who is not popular sucks...and will only talk to people that are....that is so stupid...and she is so full of it.
:)Sunshine:)


By Sparkles on Sunday, September 20, 1998 - 02:40 pm:

Shampoo,

I am so glad that you know myself and these girls better than me.

If you had read my message properly you may have understood a few things. First of all, the real reasons that these girls acted like this. I was not nasty to anyone - as a matter of fact, rather than being nasty to or about someone I dislike, I just keep out of their way. You also said something like "why should these girls like you when you hate them?" - These girls were my friends.... Who I liked. Who were nasty to me in return.

Shampoo, I am not trying to get at you here. I just want to get my argument across since I am actually the one involved. No offence, but you say "Its amazing what a little niceness can do" - I bet you aren't nice all the time. EVERYONE has there faults but that doesn't give other people the right to scream them from the rooftops.

Also, one of the girls involved phoned me saying " I am sorry, I just made all that nasty stuff up to hurt you and I know you didn't deserve it" and also said "why weren't you in school today? - I missed you". (This girl fell out with us because of a joke that went wrong) Now the next step is to forgive this girl as, as I said:

"I'm only human"

and

"Nobody is perfect"
Especially NOT me.


By Cara on Sunday, September 20, 1998 - 03:34 pm:

Hey eneryone, in my school,there are bitches, but they're nice if u know what I mean. I mean sure theres fallouts and arguments and tears, but theres no full time bulling. Ever since a guy in 5th year, ( which is like year11 inAmerica) , commited suicide because of bulling , The schhol, like expelled all those involved and now there is no more cbulling. I think all schools should do this cause it really helps.
theres this grl in school that likes to steal b/fs off people and suceds and shes a bitch but still popular!!!!!!!!!!! I mean whats that all about. I f someone in the not so pop crowd did that, everone would be on to her like a ton of bricks. I anyone watched "bugjuice" over the summer , ther was a bitch on that but she was still popular. Why ids it that all the biches are pop and all the decent people get picked on. I guess lifes just not fair.


By Rainbow on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 12:45 pm:

Shampoo,

I hate to say this but I think that Sparkles is right.


By Sunshine on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 06:50 pm:

Yea,i understand why u think they are bitches...and everything Sparkles,they sound like some anyway.But like people i hang out with are like calling each other bitches and sluts all the time..its sickning.A friend doesn't call another friend a bitch or slut cause they are just cause they are mad it should be if they did something really horrible.And they didn't...it's stupid,it goes on day after day.Always gossiping behind peoples back saying negative things about each other.I just hate it.I stopped doing that.I use to gossip but i don't gossip anymore.And when i did gossip i never called a friend of mine a bitch or slut...i would never do that.What is wrong with them???Anybody have a similar situation?
:)Sunshine:)


By 2cool4u on Friday, October 2, 1998 - 09:11 pm:

youre just a bunch of jealous fags who wish they could be as popular as people like me :)~


By Cheeky on Monday, October 5, 1998 - 05:19 pm:

Yeah " 2cool4u" sweetie - keep telling yourself that.


By Cheeky on Monday, October 5, 1998 - 05:21 pm:

Oh, and get a life.


By Anonymous on Tuesday, October 6, 1998 - 07:34 am:

*LOL* I think 2cool4u was just kidding around, don't take it too seriously cheeky :)
And anyway, everyone is a bitch one way or another :) This topic has no point really, its not good to talk about, people are just gonna start bitching.


By 2cool4u on Thursday, October 8, 1998 - 09:35 pm:

no i'm not kiddin around.....i'm fucking serious and i don't fuck around about my popularity


By Cheeky on Friday, October 9, 1998 - 04:52 pm:

With an attitude like that - you probably have no popularity.

Oh - and you are NOT "2 cool 4 me". Sad little child.

Yeah, everyone is a bitch - just in different ways. Especially "2 pathetic 4 u" - or sorry, it was "2 cool 4 u" Right?

I wonder why I got her name wrong?


By Cheeky on Friday, October 9, 1998 - 04:54 pm:

I don't mean to be bitchy to her - she just deserves it.


By 2cool4u---u know it on Friday, October 9, 1998 - 06:23 pm:

u poor jealous little fag.......so sad......yet so true....


By Cheeky on Tuesday, October 13, 1998 - 06:08 pm:

As I said sweetie - "Keep telling yourself that".

I can't be bothered with silly little girls anymore.... Such a pity.... Take my advice, go and find something better to do with your time. I don't know why, but I actually feel kinda sorry for you...

CASE CLOSED.


By Shampoo on Wednesday, October 14, 1998 - 02:34 am:

hey, ever wonder that maybe mean people who are "popular" aren't *really* popular, but since they think they are and treat everybody else as less then them, everyone just assumes that they are? you know, like, nobody really likes them or is there friend, they just think that since she *must* be cool (because if she wasn't, she wouldn't look down on people), and then they want her approval? that's how i think it is. and that 2cool4something person: popularity really means a lot to you, doesn't? it's too bad that in a few years when you graduate out of high school, your popularity means nothing, and what will really matter is your ability to cope in the "real world", where people wont think you're cool cuz you can afford tommy hilfiger.

oh, and about that whole "people who are bitches to you probably think you're bitches to them" thing? i don't care what you say, i still think it's true. maybe because i want to believe everyone is nice at heart, but actually, it's because i am now really really really good friends with people i couldn't stand a few years ago. and also, because you know how when you get in a fight with your friend, and you both go around telling everyone else what a "bitch" the other girl is. of course, you're convinced that *she's* the bitch, but at the same time she's thinking the same about you. probably because you called her a bitch. and the cycle goes on and on and on and on... sure, there are some people out there who are *really* in need of some therapy or something, but no one can get along with everyone, and unfortunately, those girls we don't get along with think we're bitches, and we think the same of them.

oh right, and 2cool4u: i'm trying to say this in the nicest way possible: popularity does not matter. as one of the 30 yr old nrrdgrrls how much high school popularity means to them now, and you'll see. all that matters is you have fun in high school. teenage social status has so little to do with the real world. if i were you, i'd start trying to be more friendly to "the little people" (ie, those who aren't as "popular" as you). because in a few years, you're reaaaaaally gonna wish you were nicer that that "geek" who is now your brain surgeon, or you'll wish you hadn't hated the "math geek" who is now investigating you in tax fraud.

i think 2cool4u is one of the minority of people who represent those girls who really are mean for no reason and not just in some peoples oppinion cuz they're just "mean" to them. she doesn't know any of us, but she's making speculations on our high school social statuses. 2cool4u: what if cheeky was actually the most "popular" girl in the school, but was sick of how the system works?

i mean, how many girls here have been called a bitch at one time or another? and do you think any of you are bitches!? of course not!


By Anonymous on Wednesday, October 14, 1998 - 02:48 pm:

Thanks for your psychological essay Shampoo, but I'm SURE you're a few tacos short of a combination plate. Give your thoughts more time to develop. Especially what you think nice is.


By 2cool4u on Friday, October 16, 1998 - 10:33 pm:

la la la................


By 2-cool-4-u on Friday, October 23, 1998 - 08:08 pm:

just waiting for you to get up the balls to say something else


By MeG on Friday, October 23, 1998 - 09:48 pm:

2-cool-4-u,have a question for u are u liked by basically everybody in your whole grade or just your group of friends?????Are u just part of "the group"and there for u are "popular."Cause in order to be really popular, people have to like u, even people u think are "losers".I don't know u so i'm not going to make any judgements if u are popular or not.All i'm trying to say is true popularity is where u are liked by everybody.
*MeG*


By 2Cool4u on Sunday, October 25, 1998 - 09:43 pm:

for your information, just about everybody in my grade


By 2cool4U on Monday, November 2, 1998 - 06:39 pm:

i'm waiting...........


By Anonymous on Monday, November 9, 1998 - 12:25 pm:

2cool4u! Get a life girl! You are so obnoxious that you are not really urself. ur just making up a little character cause u think ur cool


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