I met a pair of girls on mIRC. One, to be refered to as Sasha, is 14.5
Jania, tell them what you told us! Tell them that it's not right, that what's being done to them is *wrong*, it isn't natural and that it's incest. Obviously, if you don't know where they live, you can't report it, so you have to convince them to do it. Those fathers deserve to be thrown in jail! And those girls are going to need a lot of therapy after this. Please tell them to report it, that their lives will be so much better once those fathers are done away with. Good luck!
Jania, as a Father of a 19 year old Daughter and a 11 year old Son I've formed a bond of Trust and Love with my kids. Which should never be Broken!! What these two Fathers are doing is a GREAT INJUSTICE to their daughters...they should be hung by their Balls and pull in Jail for the Rest of their Lives for such actions!! (Sorry I got so graphical [its a Guy Thing I guess]...but I really dislike to hear of Fathers acting in this way. It makes me So Darn MAD!!) Now their Girls are going to need a lot of help in their Future RelationShips!! Tell them, I feel for them and like Shampoo said they should report their Fathers' actions!! It sounds like its been going on way to long!!
That is sick. I cannot understand what drives people to have sexual and intimate relations with people in their family!
Kitten- by what Jania said i get the impression that the girls don;t have much choice in the matter. Incest is sexual abuse!
You got it right there Keely ! Those girls are being abused, but somehow, I get the impression that things have been going on so long that they won't find it easy to get out of this situation. Jania, you gotta try to convince these girls to talk to other people about this and get it stopped ! - Good luck, grrl. I hope you manage to help them. - Cathy
My God, the world is a sick terrible place... how can this happen? Thinking about it just makes me sick to my stomach. These fathers need to be shot. They are disgusting, terrible, horrible, sick people who don't deserve to live.
well actually you have no right to tell them anything. BUT I would go ahead and stick out your opinion to them. They've probably heard it a million times but perhaps that million and oneth time they'll actually listen to it. Good luck
Jania, these girls need help. A girl I know claims that she was sexually abused by her foster father for the six months immediatly preceeding her sixteenth birthday. I do not believe her for many reasons even though she was my best friend at one stage before she hurt me terribly. The point is that i am still friends with her because she needs the support of her friends during such times. She does not know that i disbelieve her and i hope she never does.
years of age and the other, to be refered to as Melissa, is 14. They
both have sexual relationships with thier fathers (one father is 41, the
other 40). Melissa lost her virginity to her father at the age of 12,
and has been continuing to have sex, without a condom with him ever
since, only now has she found a 16 year old boyfriend as well as her
father. With the boyfriend she does use a condom. She is one a birth
control pill. Sasha lost her virgity to her father at the age of 13.
She never uses a condom with his and she is also on the pill. She has a
16 yearold boyfriend and a 34 yearold boyfriend. She uses condoms with
them. I have the e-mail addresses of the girls, but, for obvious
reasons I will not share it with you. Please advise my on my actions.
This is incest and pedophillia. Both Illegal. The main problem I face
is that they life to have sex with thier fathers, and are reluctent to
give up. Thank you for your time.
By Shampoo on Monday, June 22, 1998 - 04:41 am:
By BlueEyes on Monday, June 22, 1998 - 10:41 am:
By Kitten on Tuesday, June 23, 1998 - 02:17 am:
Jania, both girls are sick and demented and their fathers are even more so! Tell these girls that what they are doing is morally and legally wrong. I know a girl in asimilar situation. She is not a friend of mine, just a girl I know, who was having sex with her brother (she was 15, he was 19) for two years. It was not forced onto her, but both of them did it because they wanted to. The brother's girlfriend found out and left him, and the brother and sister stopped having sex, only for the sister to start having sex with her YOUNGER brother (aged 16 now...she is 18 now).
What I want to know is: With 5 BILLION people in the world, why have sex with your family?!?!
By Keely on Tuesday, June 23, 1998 - 01:24 pm:
By Cathy on Thursday, June 25, 1998 - 07:10 am:
By Shampoo on Sunday, June 28, 1998 - 01:13 am:
Jania, I know there's probably not that much you can do over the net, but try your best, and tell us what happens.
By Eliste on Tuesday, June 30, 1998 - 06:00 pm:
By Karen on Wednesday, July 8, 1998 - 09:04 am:
The first thing you must do is make sure these girls are telling the truth. Ask them questions and be their friend. If they are telling the truth, how do you know that these fathers do not have sexual relationships with other young girls such as nieces. We seem to hear thousands of stories about the friendly uncle or family friend that abused young girls. Because you don't know the full story, you should speak to your mum, a family friend, teacher or guidance counsellor. All these people are here to help us, and if these girls can't ask for help, it is up to you as their friend to find that help for them.
These girls may enjoy these encounters with their fathers - sick as it may sound - because it gives them a sense of closeness and love, two feelings that would be deprived of them if their fathers were to stop. As their friend you must help them to close the chapter of their life that involved their father. They must then start a new chapter that allows them to live a normal life with ambitions and the proper kind of family love that we should all experience.
If need be, you should show them this chat page and allow them to see the reactions of people from all over the world. Most people on these pages are American, I come from Scotland, UK and I know that some of these people have very different religions and cultures. The words from BLUE EYES are very important as he is a Father and he obviously realises the boundaries of parenthood.
please help these girls - you may be their only hope!
luv Kaz