I can't seem to get a guy.
When you are on the look out for a guy, you can never seem to find one. These things happen when you are not expecting it, believe me!
I was gonna reply to you, but since you haven`t kept your promise that you would read and reply to everyones letter - I`M NOT GONNA BOTHER!
Meow, hiss hiss. Maybe she was busy! It was only a day, for God's sake.
Look guys, i'm really sorry I have n't wriiten for a while, but here's the deal,
Cheers Galaxycaramel !(I love those chocolates)
By the way, thanks for sticking up for me Anonymous on Monday June 15!
Girl I know totally what you mean...it's like..all my guy friends are like..you're so gorgeous, you're intelligent, you're so this, you're so that..and that i deserve someone equally so..well..if i'm so wonderful how come all the equally so males of our human species haven't realized this yet? silly boys...i sometimes think i'm too picky..i do know though that like Galaxy Caramel said..yum..caramel...it's best to just live your life and do all the things you normally do and love..because you want a guy that's going to have similar interests as you right? so if you're just doing your thing you'll more than likely run into a guy who's doing his thing..and then you can do it together..hehehe..don't take that the way it just sounded..you know what i meant..i also know that if you try to look at any new boy as boyfriend material it gets screwy..look at them just like any other friend you have..and then if you feel the urge to smooch him..maybe he feels the same about you and you just don't know it..you know what? i'm rambling..go with Galaxy Caramel's advice..it's best. :)
I have gotta boyfriend but ................ i spent a miserable 6 years whn ll my friends had one and all th boy hated me!!!!!!!!
Hey, I`m sorry . I just thouht that Galaxy Caramels advice was cool, then I just jumped to conclusions, silly me!
Hi Everyone! Well, I`m glad my advice was helpful to you. I do like helping people, actually lots of my friends come to me for advice. You are welcome to my services at any time, and that goes for any one else too :)
Hey Everyone!
Angelmint, You are SO right!
Iloveboyz,
STAR,
Guys are like parking spaces..the good ones are
Galaxy Caramel:
THANX
I have had this same boyfriend all summer, and now that schools have started, I have got so much bitching from the people in my school, just because the boy happens to be 5cm shorter than me, and 2 years younger. But I havent dumped him, cause I really love him. Sorry, Im just like sorta proud of myself!
SHOCK!!!!!! SEX!!!!!!!!! BOYS!!!!!!!!!
Girls here's a hint, If you like a boy, please tell them that. This double standard of guys having to ask a girl out is sexist and stupid. Don't give him clues, just tell him.
HEY!!!! I WAS STAR FIRST!!!! I just haven't been here in awhile... my life got busy ok????? Now someone stole my name... what do I do????? No offense Star2... does anyne remember me? You can probably still see my older posts up top...
but the again, I'm *Star* and you're STAR so maybe that works... I sounded super mean in that post, sorry bout that.
Okay here;s my boy problem. What do I get for the guy who is sort of my boyfriend but sort of my ex (long story, but I am sure it is posted in a discussion somewhere here). Anyway it's his 19 birthday - which means here in Ontario he is of legal drinking age so it's sort of a big deal to him... but I have no clue what to get him. I was planning on giving him a framed pic of us but now I am not so sure. So I am down to a hemp necklace and a card which isn;t enough...... Any suggestions???
Maybe a really nice beer mug. You could have something engraved on it. I'm sure there are shops in malls up there that sell stuff like this. As a guy, I always appriciate a nice mug. hope htis helps,
If you two aren't together anymore, the framed pic might not be a good idea. I don't know who broke up w/whom. If he's the one who did the breaking off, he'd probably be scared by the framed pic. If you're the one who broke it off, it'd probably give him false hope.
Hey thanks everyone who gave gift advice! Stuff went great with my boyfriend when I saw him on Sunday...... I guess so great that I can actaully call him my boyfriend again!!
Okay get this.....
Everyone tell me how pretty I am, but no one seems to be interested in me.
Please Help
Anyone.
P.S It will read everyone's letters and reply to all of them
By Galaxy Caramel on Sunday, June 7, 1998 - 12:13 pm:
You say that you have been told that you are pretty, so maybe boys are too shy to approch you. They probably look at you and think- she would never go out with me! you never know, you might even have a secret admirer, who thinks you are totally amazing but hasn`t got the guts to tell you.
Please don`t feel down about this.When it is the right time it will just happen. Look at it this way, the next boyfriend you are going to have is out there some where right now, not knowing that he is gonna meet you, but when he does he will ask you out!
I don`t know if that makes sense, sorry if it doesn`t!!
The point is you`re not gonna be single forever.It might take time though.
But remember this valid point -us girls don`t need boys to have fun in life! (well, not all the time anyway!)
Hope I`ve helped you,
Good Luck!
ps.write back soon!
By STAR on Saturday, June 13, 1998 - 07:09 pm:
By Anonymous on Monday, June 15, 1998 - 08:07 pm:
By Anonymous on Saturday, June 27, 1998 - 02:11 pm:
tThere is n't a computer in my house, I have to go to my Dad's like, once a week, and that's where I am now.
Please don't hate me STAR.
By Anonymous on Saturday, June 27, 1998 - 02:19 pm:
You sound like a really cool mate to have, so I would like it if we became mates!
You're advice really made me think about my situation and you're right, maybe there is someone out there for me, but I don't nned him now, to have fun! My mates, used to go out with these three boys, and they all broke up, but they still go on about them 24 hours a day and make comments to me like, "no wonder you have n't got a boyfriend" and "oh, you've got a zit there, and You've got conceler there!" and I'm like SHUT UP!
Then they go off in a huff!
It has gotten to the stage where I've had to make up imaginary boyfriends just to be included in the conversation.
I hope i'm not sounding like a pathetic wallflower
at the moment. Tell me if I am.
I will write next week.
From The person who created this conversation.
By Anonymous on Saturday, June 27, 1998 - 02:21 pm:
You sound like a really cool mate to have!
Read my letter to Star
By AngelMint on Sunday, June 28, 1998 - 05:59 pm:
By Iloveboyz on Tuesday, June 30, 1998 - 04:33 am:
Boyfriends r not everything. You can have fun without them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If u wanna no how then e-mail me at
sldawkins@usa.net
See ya soon
Sarah
By STAR on Thursday, July 2, 1998 - 12:01 pm:
By Galaxy Caramel on Thursday, July 2, 1998 - 03:23 pm:
By the sound of your reply, you don`t seem to have very good friends. You shouldn`t let them put you
down - so what if you`re not in a relationship! And I use concealer on my spots too, its just a part of teenage life. Don`t worry about the imaginary boyfriend thing, you are not the pathetic one. But I think that you shouldn`t need to lie to true friends. Don`t make up stories too much because they will probably find out. Be confident about being single, and you will show them what kinda grrl you are - especially when you do get a fabulous boyfriend!
Angelmint - (cool name) you totally read my mind!
Sarah - you go grrl!
STAR - I`m sure you`ll be forgiven!
By Anonymous on Sunday, July 5, 1998 - 04:32 am:
This is the person who created this conversation!
I took you're advice Caramel, and believe me it worked! I am not going about with those mates now, I'm hangin' around with a new posse, and I have learnt, that yes, you CAN have fun WITHOUT the aid of boys!
Yay! I ripped up the picture of my ex-crush, and have been listening to "Celebrate" 100 times a day.
Oh and check this, my old friends pretended that they knew the guy I made up, and even faked a letter to me pretending it was from him!
I just threw it in the bin. They even insulted my intelligence, by telling me they did n't even know what was in it!
When they "asked" me, I simply replyed, "the bin'll tell you"
That shut them up. Even more weirder, but they even confessed about making him up the day before, they gave me the letter.
Some friends they were. I have pretended to make up with them, but I'm not going round with them anymore.
I DO NOT NEED BOYZ! I am just going to wait until the right one comes along,and until then I'm gonna have FUN.
Once again, cheers Galaxy!
(My name's Viv by the way)
By Anonymous on Sunday, July 5, 1998 - 04:35 am:
Why are boys just SO weird, and then they say we're the ones that play the mind games?
Read my letter to Galaxy!
Viv!
By Anonymous on Sunday, July 5, 1998 - 04:37 am:
You're right too!
I can have fun without boyfriends!
See ya
Viv
By Anonymous on Sunday, July 5, 1998 - 04:38 am:
No hard feelings?
Viv
By Angela on Tuesday, August 4, 1998 - 01:08 am:
taken and the rest are handicapped....
As long as you're looking for the "perfect" guy...he's
never going to show up- because, yup, you guessed it!
He doesn't exist!
It's possible that guys may think that you're already
involved with someone and are afraid to find out, and
yet at the same time...if you're searching for a certain
guy to come your way, there is a reason that you chose
him, and I'm sure that someone also had the same reasons
and already snagged him...like I said, the good ones
are already taken..
Keep your head up and don't get discouraged...
sometimes it's an optimisic, independant attitude
that can be the most appealing to a guy- remember,
most of them are afraid of commitment..so show
them that you're capable of have an amazing time
without them and maybe they won't be so threatened
by commitment and they won't be so afraid to get involved....
Keep smiling!
Angela :-)
By Fashion Queen on Thursday, August 6, 1998 - 07:13 pm:
I would just like to say that you are VERY good at giving advice!!!!
Fashion Queen
x
P.S. Hi everyone! :oÞ
By Galaxy Caramel on Monday, August 10, 1998 - 02:53 pm:
F.Q.
J
By Nancy on Thursday, September 17, 1998 - 01:37 am:
Why do you want a boyfriend? Oh yeah, I understand, you want a boyfriend so that you can stop having fun and flirting with other guys, so that you have some overprotective guy hanging over u beating the shit out of anyone that says anything offthe limit, so that you get in rows with your friends if they are not friends with the lucky guy.So that you can have a guy pestering you to have his hands down your pants or up your shirt.
Oh, yeah, well I would get a boyfriend any day with those reasons! Look, respect yourself you dont need a guy to make your life happier, if you can makeyourself happy. Get a bunch of your friends, slap on loads of make up and sassy sexy clothes, and go nightclubbing (even if you are so young that its illegal!) Have fun. He'll pop up somewhere
By Kitten on Monday, September 21, 1998 - 03:18 am:
Now I have the attention I'd like to cue the violins...
I was a H/School loooooser! No-one really liked me. Then again no-one hated me. I had plenty of boy FRIENDS. But I was single.
I had tits, I tells ya! I had ass! I had a 20" waist, dagnamit! But a boy to no avail!
Oh sure, friends would say..."they're intimidated by your great looks and fab personality!" and did I belive them? No. Should I have? Yes.
I was the babe of the school and didn't know it! Alas, along rolls my knight in shining 1969 VW beetle, a shy boy, smart, sexy and SINGLE. I do the usual routine. Meet, greet. Flirt. But he doesn't chatch. One night I call him, tell him I'm keen and you know what? He snaps me up like fish of the day!
Ten years down the track, he still tells me how jealous his friends were (are). They didn't open their mouths because they thought I wasn't keen. I didn't do it either for the same reason, until my Prince came. I guess I know things happen for a reason now. Fate. I wasn't meant to be with those other men.
So don't feel like you're unattractive. I still get calls from guys at school, just "checkin' up" seeing if I'm keen to "talk about old times" asking me how long it's been since I ditched "what's his name". They still get dissappointed when I say old "what's his name" and I are getting married in July. Then they ask when the buck's night's on.
Love yourselves First and FOREMOST!!!
By Anonymous on Monday, September 21, 1998 - 11:13 pm:
Vijay
vijay.a.kher@vanderbilt.edu
By Star on Saturday, September 26, 1998 - 05:15 am:
*Star* (the original)
By Star on Monday, September 28, 1998 - 12:17 am:
*Star
By Keely on Tuesday, October 13, 1998 - 10:18 pm:
Please help!!
:)
Keely
By Gilmoure on Tuesday, October 13, 1998 - 10:35 pm:
Gilmoure
By Endora on Tuesday, October 13, 1998 - 10:41 pm:
Since he's legal drinking age, how about his favorite drink to go w/the bracelet? Or a CD of music you know he likes (you might want to stay away from any "our song" cds for the same reasons as the framed pic)? Anyway, good luck & I hope things work out the way you want w/him :-)
By Keely on Monday, October 19, 1998 - 05:39 pm:
I had decided that if stuff was awkward between us I would give him the card, the hemp necklace, and a bottle of wine. And if stuff was realationshipish he would get all that plus the pic of us.... and well stuff was very, very, realationshipish....... And he loved the gifts.
:) Yeah!!
Thanks again everyone!
Keely
By Keely on Saturday, October 24, 1998 - 11:01 pm:
My after all the trouble I went to to find the perfect birthday card and write a nice message inside it my boyfriend loses it before he gets a chance to read it!!!
AHHHHhhhh......
It's not like it could be that many places either.... he lives a tiny room in university res.
Being as sweet as i am I decided to write him another card..... But it just ticks me off that he lost the first one....